QUESTION
If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. “ WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”
MY ANSWER.
My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.
What is your one answer, comment below on the comments section and let me hear what you think.
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Mmeme Mbambo 
Great answer but my answer is “If I’ve grown to love you then your appearance won’t make a difference. Instead of worrying about your appearance you should focus on your personality and attitude towards people because those are what really matter”
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Really great reply😁😁👌👌👌
It’s so true appearance does not matter only attitude and how you treat others matter
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Good answer
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You have to be lovable to be loved. Supporting someone who has no self-love, no will to improve what they know is lacking, that is just enabling a weakness. I speak from experience.
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Yeah that’s very true supporting someone who is weak is supporting their weakness you have to make them aware of their weakness and together find a way to help those people get through it
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As one who also could not accept myself at first, I can tell you that you don’t need me to hold your hand wherever you go.
But I can introduce you to the One who can help you. He created you for a reason, and He loves you the way you are, although He loves you too much to leave you the way you are. He wants you to learn to love yourself and become all that He created you for. He will hold your hand every day as you move toward that goal, and He will love you for the rest of your life.
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Wow what a wonderful answer 👐👐👐
This is surely a great reply, God is the key to everything he is the only one who can love you more than yourself
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(Amen! 🙂 )
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Loving yourself helps others find you lovable.
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Yeah that’s very true thanks for the support 👍
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Love is in the heart and not the physical appearance.
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Yeah that’s very true
Love the comment thanks
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Great answer. My answer would also be on the same lines. “If you are unable to accept and love yourself, no amount of external validation has the power to change your thought process. If you find someone who grows to like you taking into account all of the shortcomings that you’ve pointed out in yourself, it will be a temporary relief for your mind that’s conscious if these so called flaws. A long term measure is to accept who you are in it’s entirety and love yourself enough to be able to take complete ownership and responsibility of your life.
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Wonderful answer Supermodel we truly have to accept with who we are. After all we are who we are
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