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How to live life

Life is what we make it

We cannot plan for life but we can prepare for it.

There is a time to live and there is a time to die, there is a time to be born and is time to grow.

In life we must always be prepared for everything and anything. Living aint easy but dying is never an option.

Celebrate life everyday because life is full of uncertainity. You never know whats gonna happen today and tommorrow so its always better to live a life free from regret.

Forgiveness, love, truth and rightousness are you armour in life, they protect you from many bad things and they even protect your life and happiness.

Celebrate life with everyone you know, celebrate everyone while they are still around, celebrate time and respect everyone.

Life is what happens to us when we are busy planning for it.

Death is the bus-stop to our final destination. You cannot prevent or even avoid it but you can be prepaid for it.

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WHAT IS A FRIEND

True friend’s will never be ashamed of you

A person who walks in when others walk out is a true friend. Friends are life’s preservers.

Fake friends are people who only appear when its convinient, they are people who are always there but never really truly there when needed.

Fake friends are like this, during the dry season they are nowhere to be found; they only come flowing in with the water during the Rainy season.

They never come bearing any gifts yet they always leave with something. They are the first to disapprove and discourage you whenever you have a good idea or believe in something. They will never believe in you, your ideas and your abilities. They stick with you because they believe they are better than you in every way. They are always ready to lough at your failures and mistakes. They believe they are in some kind of competition with you, hence they rejoice when you hit a push back or stumble in life.

Fake friends spend more time talking rather than lestening. FAKE FRIEND ARE LIKE SHADOWS, They are there during the good times but as soon as the sun sets THEY DISSAPPEAR.

Becareful of who you hang around, be aware of your surroundings and your surrounders. If you’ve got fake friends hanging around you all the time you dont have to please anyone just CUT THEM OFF. If you are a fake friend to someone or somebody CHANGE YOUR WAYS TODAY.

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How to find happiness

Memories bring us together

Life afflictions are for a moment while glory is eternal

Memories bring joy, Everytime you sit alone and in peace you remember the past, its always the best place to escape to when you feel troubled.

Good memories provide solace while other memories provide appreciation i.e they make you appreciate life more. Memories make us whole.

They provide us with a sense of where we are going in life, Where we’ve been and were we are. Sometimes when the presence becomes so overwhelming just dive back into the past , try to remember why you are who you are, how you got into the position that you’re in today and why you ever started, I assure you when you get these answers your perception and point of view will definately change and you will be suprised when you find yourself feeling more eager about life and your daily tasks.

Never forget who you are, who you were when you were a child and who you wished to become when you were little cause childrens dreams and wishes are often the purest and truest of them all.

Carry the faith that you had in yourself when you were little. And perhaps when you’re old and you’ve forgotten just remember and your memories will remind you.

#DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER.

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The power of imagination

Imagination makes ideas into reality

Reality is not real, the real reality is what you imagine.

Imagination is key to succeeding life. Without imagination nothing is possible. IMAGINATION OPENS DOORS.

It creates things that do not exist, it makes things real. Before you do anything in life first picture it in your imagination then no matter how hard it is to do, that picture in your imagination will be the force that drives you to keep going even when you feel like giving up.

Your imagination is the only thing that has the power to decide whether something can be or something cannot be. VALUE IT, its more preciouse than gold.

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Life advice

We don’t always have to agree with one another, but it’s important that we learn to respect each other.

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Where to seek guidance

Today when I woke up I started thinking about life in general. Looking at my age I realized that I have not aged even a single day I still feel young enough, And even my seventy year old grandfather still feels the same and that’s when I came to the realization that only our bodies […]

Where to seek guidance

Self improvement (life)

Happiness is from within

No one will ever really make you happy in life, only you have the power to bring happiness into your life.

Some people believe that relationships make them happy, full and complete in life. But in most cases that is usually not the case.

Relationships do bring happines but only for a short time. For a little time you are happy in love but then comes a time when you spend your time just crying and thinking about the other person (him or her).

If you are feeling unloved or lonely in life, trust me what you are looking for in relationships you wont find.

If love had the power then hunger, poverty and misunderstandings would be of no harm to your relationship, they would neither have any power nor any impact, And they they would pose no threat to your relationship.

If you are lacking love in your life then most probably its self love that you are lacking. Its dangerous to love someone more than you love yourself. Be fair to everyone including yourself.

Dont let the illusion that they show on tvs about how relationships complete people or make people complete each other. These are matters that other people just cant fix only you can.

You can beat low self esteem, deppresion JUST LEARN AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. How can love exist if you cant feel it for yourself.

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Self improvement (the sun will rise again)

You are never alone

This message is for all those who are in tough times, all those who feel as though life has abandoned them, And all those who have never seen a single light shine in their lives.

When life seems bleak and all hope has faded know that you are not alone, even during the worst of all times, when living seems to bring more pain than death,when death seems to be a better option, you must know you are not alone,When it it seems like the sun has set on you and darkness is infinite you mustn't lose hope cause the sun will rise again.Through the darkest time of your life you must know  you are not alone, you just need to take a deep look and you will see that you were never alone and you will never be alone.We are always there for you just open your eyes you will see, You will see that beyond all that pain and misery there is  unseen joy. Unrecognised love for you and unattended family 

Self improvement tips.

Great life tips for individuals

First of all I would like to apologise to my faithful audience and visitors for not being able to post daily. Things have not been easy in life, One bad thing after the other. But through hope I’ve been able juggle and cope with everything hoping it will all get better so here goes hope you like and enjoy my post.

Have you ever wondered why life is so complicated, so full of ups and downs, bumps and unsteadiness. Well you should stop wondering cause life is not that complicated, it’s actually way simpler than we will ever think.

Life is what we make of it, the moment we stop acting on life life starts to act on us. Every action we make whether it’s today, tomorrow, small or even big has a direct but opposite consequence in our lives so act wisely and think before you do anything. #Be wise.

Tomorrow is today waiting to happen. Don’t think of doing it tomorrow or waiting for tomorrow to come so it can be done just remember tomorrow is a result of today’s actions. The future is now.

N.B always be yourself. Never do anything to impress other people. Those who love you will always be there for you no matter the circumstances.

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The power of Perseverance {Endurance} A Reblog

Nothing is ever permanent in life everything comes to go. Ever felt like things weren’t ever gonna be okay or alright for you, Ever felt like you were the most unlucky person on earth, like no matter how hard you try you always end up in the same place you began. Well this happens to […]

The power of Perseverance {Endurance}

Self love, learning to be yourself

True happiness is when you are with the people who love and appreciate you for who you truly are.

Surely not everyone is gonna love you in life, Not everyone is gonna like you in life. If you haven’t then someday you are gonna meet some haters, some pretenders and some fake people.You have to be smart and be able to read a person’s character clearly, you have to be able to recognize your true friends and family not only in bad times but also in good times.

Fake people, fake friends and pretenders are those people who appear only when times are good, they are those people whom you have to impress on a daily basis, they are those people who never really care about you, But only care about their status in society, ie, (they only roll with the high rollers, if you can’t afford to be one any more then they discard of you).

I wonder why most of us humans are foolish enough to keep repeating the same mistakes time and time again, we see these things happening everyday and almost to everyone but we end up getting back to the same trap over and over again. IF THEY WON’T LET YOU BE YOUR TRUE SELF,IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOUR TRUE SELF, THEN THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS, they are simply not worth it.

Learn to love yourself first, learn to be yourself first and surely real people will start flowing into your , real people who will love you for who you are. Their presence will overpower the scarcity and need of love in your life so much that you will end up not having any void in your life. Happiness will over flow into your life.

Choose yourself by choosing to be real, bieng real ain’t easy but it’s the best thing you can ever do for yourself in life.

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Life advice

Live in hope

The pain, struggles and difficulties of life are what make living it worth it.

Without hate there is no love, without bitterness there is no sweetness, without pain there is no pleasure and without death there is no life.

Everything in life compliments each other, we cannot to expect live life of good times without ever having bad times. Bad times are what makes us aware when we are in good times.

Everyone one in life has a time of suffering, feeling alone, dark and bad times. That does not mean that those times are permanent or forever, just as winter may seem longer than summer and summer may seem shorter, so will the bad times in your life. But the great thing about all of this is that ~WINTER NEVER LASTS FOREVER.

Nothing is permanent, just live in hope all will work out.

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Self improvement and self reflection

# self love

QUESTION

If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”

MY ANSWER.

My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.

What is your one answer, comment below on the comments section and let me hear what you think.

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Self improvement and food for the soul.

Why do we fight to live if we are living to die.

“I strongly believe that life is not meant to be lived but to be endured.”

Bad things do happen to good people, whether we like it or not the odds of bad luck befalling us are always up and higher. Being good in life does not mean that life will run smoothly for you, Just as you expect good things to happen to you also expect and prepare for the opposite.

Life is not fair, most of us do not live life but we survive it, Yes I know it’s unsettling but it’s the reality. Life is what happens to is when we are busy preparing for it, and most of the time we hardly like what life has in store for us. To survive life we have to be able to endure it and to endure it we have to have patience.

I often ask myself this question “WHY DO WE FIGHT TO LIVE IF WE ARE LIVING TO DIE.” But most of the time I just convince myself that that’s just the way it is, You know once I knew someone who committed suicide because things were bad in life and nothing was ever going right, everything was just a mess and so at the age of eighteen he thought he was better of dead than alive and yes he succeeded in doing so and today he is no More.

It you ever feel like that in life always remember out there they is someone who’s always had it worse than you, we are all fighting our own battles, that no one but ourselves can ever win. Consider everything as a test in life, choose to be a NEVERTHELESS person in life. “Even though life is difficult and not working out for me nevertheless I will keep on trying”

Being a Nevertheless person, it means that no matter what the conditions and situation are in your life you know that it won’t always stay that way and things will get better.

So to answer my question today we fight to live even though we’re living to die because that’s how it’s meant to be. That’s how our lives are supposed to be. That’s how life is.

No life is perfect and ready for you to live you have to create your own life, one that you will live, like and love.

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