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WHAT IS A FRIEND

True friend’s will never be ashamed of you

A person who walks in when others walk out is a true friend. Friends are life’s preservers.

Fake friends are people who only appear when its convinient, they are people who are always there but never really truly there when needed.

Fake friends are like this, during the dry season they are nowhere to be found; they only come flowing in with the water during the Rainy season.

They never come bearing any gifts yet they always leave with something. They are the first to disapprove and discourage you whenever you have a good idea or believe in something. They will never believe in you, your ideas and your abilities. They stick with you because they believe they are better than you in every way. They are always ready to lough at your failures and mistakes. They believe they are in some kind of competition with you, hence they rejoice when you hit a push back or stumble in life.

Fake friends spend more time talking rather than lestening. FAKE FRIEND ARE LIKE SHADOWS, They are there during the good times but as soon as the sun sets THEY DISSAPPEAR.

Becareful of who you hang around, be aware of your surroundings and your surrounders. If you’ve got fake friends hanging around you all the time you dont have to please anyone just CUT THEM OFF. If you are a fake friend to someone or somebody CHANGE YOUR WAYS TODAY.

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How to find happiness

Memories bring us together

Life afflictions are for a moment while glory is eternal

Memories bring joy, Everytime you sit alone and in peace you remember the past, its always the best place to escape to when you feel troubled.

Good memories provide solace while other memories provide appreciation i.e they make you appreciate life more. Memories make us whole.

They provide us with a sense of where we are going in life, Where we’ve been and were we are. Sometimes when the presence becomes so overwhelming just dive back into the past , try to remember why you are who you are, how you got into the position that you’re in today and why you ever started, I assure you when you get these answers your perception and point of view will definately change and you will be suprised when you find yourself feeling more eager about life and your daily tasks.

Never forget who you are, who you were when you were a child and who you wished to become when you were little cause childrens dreams and wishes are often the purest and truest of them all.

Carry the faith that you had in yourself when you were little. And perhaps when you’re old and you’ve forgotten just remember and your memories will remind you.

#DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER.

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The power of imagination

Imagination makes ideas into reality

Reality is not real, the real reality is what you imagine.

Imagination is key to succeeding life. Without imagination nothing is possible. IMAGINATION OPENS DOORS.

It creates things that do not exist, it makes things real. Before you do anything in life first picture it in your imagination then no matter how hard it is to do, that picture in your imagination will be the force that drives you to keep going even when you feel like giving up.

Your imagination is the only thing that has the power to decide whether something can be or something cannot be. VALUE IT, its more preciouse than gold.

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The power behind a No in life

You are stronger and more powerful

If it wasnt for all those people who said no even when a yes was in order you probably wouldnt be here today.

If it was’nt for all those hard knocks in life all those stumbles. And all those moments that made you feel like you were never ever gonna amount to anything in life then you probably wouldnt be here today.

What does’nt kill you makes you stronger. Changing your mindset helps a lot in defining situations i.e A GLASS IS NEVER HALF EMPTY BUT ALWAYS HALF FULL.

Its the same with an egg and potato. The same water that haddens an egg softens the potato. ITS FULLY ON YOU WHETHER YOU CHOOSE TO BE A POTATO OR AN EGG. but whatever you choose dont let your decision be impacted or influenced by other peoples thoughts about.

My point is dont allow previouse failures, bad breaks to dictate your future for you. #YOU ARE POWERFUL.

# YOU CAN SHAKE BUT NEVER CRACK.

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Life advice

We don’t always have to agree with one another, but it’s important that we learn to respect each other.

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Where to seek guidance

Today when I woke up I started thinking about life in general. Looking at my age I realized that I have not aged even a single day I still feel young enough, And even my seventy year old grandfather still feels the same and that’s when I came to the realization that only our bodies […]

Where to seek guidance

Self improvement (life)

Happiness is from within

No one will ever really make you happy in life, only you have the power to bring happiness into your life.

Some people believe that relationships make them happy, full and complete in life. But in most cases that is usually not the case.

Relationships do bring happines but only for a short time. For a little time you are happy in love but then comes a time when you spend your time just crying and thinking about the other person (him or her).

If you are feeling unloved or lonely in life, trust me what you are looking for in relationships you wont find.

If love had the power then hunger, poverty and misunderstandings would be of no harm to your relationship, they would neither have any power nor any impact, And they they would pose no threat to your relationship.

If you are lacking love in your life then most probably its self love that you are lacking. Its dangerous to love someone more than you love yourself. Be fair to everyone including yourself.

Dont let the illusion that they show on tvs about how relationships complete people or make people complete each other. These are matters that other people just cant fix only you can.

You can beat low self esteem, deppresion JUST LEARN AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. How can love exist if you cant feel it for yourself.

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Self improvement (the sun will rise again)

You are never alone

This message is for all those who are in tough times, all those who feel as though life has abandoned them, And all those who have never seen a single light shine in their lives.

When life seems bleak and all hope has faded know that you are not alone, even during the worst of all times, when living seems to bring more pain than death,when death seems to be a better option, you must know you are not alone,When it it seems like the sun has set on you and darkness is infinite you mustn't lose hope cause the sun will rise again.Through the darkest time of your life you must know  you are not alone, you just need to take a deep look and you will see that you were never alone and you will never be alone.We are always there for you just open your eyes you will see, You will see that beyond all that pain and misery there is  unseen joy. Unrecognised love for you and unattended family 

The power of Perseverance {Endurance} A Reblog

Nothing is ever permanent in life everything comes to go. Ever felt like things weren’t ever gonna be okay or alright for you, Ever felt like you were the most unlucky person on earth, like no matter how hard you try you always end up in the same place you began. Well this happens to […]

The power of Perseverance {Endurance}

Life advice

Live in hope

The pain, struggles and difficulties of life are what make living it worth it.

Without hate there is no love, without bitterness there is no sweetness, without pain there is no pleasure and without death there is no life.

Everything in life compliments each other, we cannot to expect live life of good times without ever having bad times. Bad times are what makes us aware when we are in good times.

Everyone one in life has a time of suffering, feeling alone, dark and bad times. That does not mean that those times are permanent or forever, just as winter may seem longer than summer and summer may seem shorter, so will the bad times in your life. But the great thing about all of this is that ~WINTER NEVER LASTS FOREVER.

Nothing is permanent, just live in hope all will work out.

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Life has its consequences.

Don’t live life carelessly

Believe me you, life is not a fairytale where is always a happily ever after in the end, life is no movie where you get things easily and freely without ever working hard just because it’s fate, destiny or meant to be. Here in the real life you get what you deserve and nothing more than that.

Shortcuts in life will never work, they will misguide you and lead you astray. Hard work is the only thing that pays. You will always reap what you sow and not what you wish for.

All of our actions have equal but opposite consequences in our lives, if you slack off now, party hard and live life carelessly. Life will reward you for that just as you deserve to be rewarded.

In life it’s not wrong to be carefree, but always be careful of how you live your life, Remember tomorrow is another day and nothing can ever stop tomorrow from being a day. Beware of the steps you take in your life. Make sure that whatever you do today does not become a thorn or barrier in your future life.

Become more careful of how you live your life, and don’t strive to be a disappointment to yourself and the people who people in you. Think about yourself first before acting on some actions or decisions.

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Surprise {the power of being aware}

#Life and it’s surprise

Surprise —— it is the element of being caught unaware or unknowingly

Have you ever been surprised by something in life. Or has life ever surprised you. Most of us live our lives as the surprised, we are always unaware of what’s gonna happen next.

Rush in life, never be late. Dont let the winter come and find you without a fireplace you will freeze to death. Never be caught unaware this is your life OWN IT.

Don’t allow time to pass you without you even noticing, Either you be on time or you get ahead of time.

Let your success become the lighting that strikes anyway and anytime. Surprise yourself by how far you can go, by how far you can endure and by how much you can do.

Only perception matters don’t be disturbed and distracted by your past mistakes and life’s failure’s. Be aware of your surrounding, your strength and your will power don’t allow time, life and failure to work the element of surprise on you. Be aware and always ready.

You are more intelligent than you think and far more stronger than you ever guessed. Don’t let failure, disappointments and life beat you to death. LIVE Outstandingly. It’s never too late

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Self improvement and self reflection

# self love

QUESTION

If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”

MY ANSWER.

My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.

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Self improvement and food for the soul.

Why do we fight to live if we are living to die.

“I strongly believe that life is not meant to be lived but to be endured.”

Bad things do happen to good people, whether we like it or not the odds of bad luck befalling us are always up and higher. Being good in life does not mean that life will run smoothly for you, Just as you expect good things to happen to you also expect and prepare for the opposite.

Life is not fair, most of us do not live life but we survive it, Yes I know it’s unsettling but it’s the reality. Life is what happens to is when we are busy preparing for it, and most of the time we hardly like what life has in store for us. To survive life we have to be able to endure it and to endure it we have to have patience.

I often ask myself this question “WHY DO WE FIGHT TO LIVE IF WE ARE LIVING TO DIE.” But most of the time I just convince myself that that’s just the way it is, You know once I knew someone who committed suicide because things were bad in life and nothing was ever going right, everything was just a mess and so at the age of eighteen he thought he was better of dead than alive and yes he succeeded in doing so and today he is no More.

It you ever feel like that in life always remember out there they is someone who’s always had it worse than you, we are all fighting our own battles, that no one but ourselves can ever win. Consider everything as a test in life, choose to be a NEVERTHELESS person in life. “Even though life is difficult and not working out for me nevertheless I will keep on trying”

Being a Nevertheless person, it means that no matter what the conditions and situation are in your life you know that it won’t always stay that way and things will get better.

So to answer my question today we fight to live even though we’re living to die because that’s how it’s meant to be. That’s how our lives are supposed to be. That’s how life is.

No life is perfect and ready for you to live you have to create your own life, one that you will live, like and love.

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