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In this life you are alone, friends come and go, sometimes family doesnโ€™t understand. Do what you must when you must and always make sure the only regret you have in your life is that you tried your best. Your dreams are yours and yours alone to both dream and achieve, donโ€™t spend your whole [โ€ฆ]

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Most people know a flower when its a rose, they forget a rose is once a bud.

What defines us is how well we can rise after falling down Auther unkown

Begin anywhere. Unkown.

In a gentle way you can shake the world Unkown.

If you cant do anything about it then let it go. DONT BE A PRISONER TO THINGS YOU CANT CHANGE Tony Robbins.

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How to find happiness

Memories bring us together

Life afflictions are for a moment while glory is eternal

Memories bring joy, Everytime you sit alone and in peace you remember the past, its always the best place to escape to when you feel troubled.

Good memories provide solace while other memories provide appreciation i.e they make you appreciate life more. Memories make us whole.

They provide us with a sense of where we are going in life, Where we’ve been and were we are. Sometimes when the presence becomes so overwhelming just dive back into the past , try to remember why you are who you are, how you got into the position that you’re in today and why you ever started, I assure you when you get these answers your perception and point of view will definately change and you will be suprised when you find yourself feeling more eager about life and your daily tasks.

Never forget who you are, who you were when you were a child and who you wished to become when you were little cause childrens dreams and wishes are often the purest and truest of them all.

Carry the faith that you had in yourself when you were little. And perhaps when you’re old and you’ve forgotten just remember and your memories will remind you.

#DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER.

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The power of imagination

Imagination makes ideas into reality

Reality is not real, the real reality is what you imagine.

Imagination is key to succeeding life. Without imagination nothing is possible. IMAGINATION OPENS DOORS.

It creates things that do not exist, it makes things real. Before you do anything in life first picture it in your imagination then no matter how hard it is to do, that picture in your imagination will be the force that drives you to keep going even when you feel like giving up.

Your imagination is the only thing that has the power to decide whether something can be or something cannot be. VALUE IT, its more preciouse than gold.

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The power behind a No in life

You are stronger and more powerful

If it wasnt for all those people who said no even when a yes was in order you probably wouldnt be here today.

If it was’nt for all those hard knocks in life all those stumbles. And all those moments that made you feel like you were never ever gonna amount to anything in life then you probably wouldnt be here today.

What does’nt kill you makes you stronger. Changing your mindset helps a lot in defining situations i.e A GLASS IS NEVER HALF EMPTY BUT ALWAYS HALF FULL.

Its the same with an egg and potato. The same water that haddens an egg softens the potato. ITS FULLY ON YOU WHETHER YOU CHOOSE TO BE A POTATO OR AN EGG. but whatever you choose dont let your decision be impacted or influenced by other peoples thoughts about.

My point is dont allow previouse failures, bad breaks to dictate your future for you. #YOU ARE POWERFUL.

# YOU CAN SHAKE BUT NEVER CRACK.

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We don’t always have to agree with one another, but it’s important that we learn to respect each other.

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Where to seek guidance

Today when I woke up I started thinking about life in general. Looking at my age I realized that I have not aged even a single day I still feel young enough, And even my seventy year old grandfather still feels the same and thatโ€™s when I came to the realization that only our bodies [โ€ฆ]

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Self improvement (life)

Happiness is from within

No one will ever really make you happy in life, only you have the power to bring happiness into your life.

Some people believe that relationships make them happy, full and complete in life. But in most cases that is usually not the case.

Relationships do bring happines but only for a short time. For a little time you are happy in love but then comes a time when you spend your time just crying and thinking about the other person (him or her).

If you are feeling unloved or lonely in life, trust me what you are looking for in relationships you wont find.

If love had the power then hunger, poverty and misunderstandings would be of no harm to your relationship, they would neither have any power nor any impact, And they they would pose no threat to your relationship.

If you are lacking love in your life then most probably its self love that you are lacking. Its dangerous to love someone more than you love yourself. Be fair to everyone including yourself.

Dont let the illusion that they show on tvs about how relationships complete people or make people complete each other. These are matters that other people just cant fix only you can.

You can beat low self esteem, deppresion JUST LEARN AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. How can love exist if you cant feel it for yourself.

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Self improvement (the sun will rise again)

You are never alone

This message is for all those who are in tough times, all those who feel as though life has abandoned them, And all those who have never seen a single light shine in their lives.

When life seems bleak and all hope has faded know that you are not alone, even during the worst of all times, when living seems to bring more pain than death,when death seems to be a better option, you must know you are not alone,When it it seems like the sun has set on you and darkness is infinite you mustn't lose hope cause the sun will rise again.Through the darkest time of your life you must know  you are not alone, you just need to take a deep look and you will see that you were never alone and you will never be alone.We are always there for you just open your eyes you will see, You will see that beyond all that pain and misery there is  unseen joy. Unrecognised love for you and unattended family 

The power of smart decisions

Smart choices always get you ahead in life no matter what the circumstances are.

Only a number of people in life are smart, Most f us humans never really bother thinking about the future, past or even present. We never really plan for Life this we always find ourselves struggling to to really live life to he fullest.

Wisdom is rare among humans, people who always do things for the now rarely have a future. See here’s the thing, in life there’s always a shot-run and a long-run, if you fail to plan for the future and make poor decisions and choices that may benefit you in the short run which is the now then know that in the long-run which is the future those bad little choices or decisions definetly become thorns that prick life out of you.

But here’s the great part smart choices may mean a Little hardwork and toil in the present, a little less fun and more seriousness in the now but the best thing about this is that smart choices may you wiser, they make you smarter and they definitely guarantee a better tomorrow.

In everything you do always remember that tommorow is the only thing that’s forever. If pleasure today means the opposite tomorrow then choose what’s best for you and what will last you. Friends are never permanent,parties are not permanent but as long as you are living you are. Here’s an example, Smoking may be fun today but lung cancer isn’t won’t be tomorrow #choose wiser

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Self Development {The power of filtering bad news.}

How strong are you? Dig deep enough and you will discover that some of us just ain’t that strong enough. Our defense walls easily crumble the instant someone passes a bad comment at us.

We are vulnerable on the inside, we let stranger’s dictate to us how we should talk, how we should dress, how we should be and how we should live our lives.

We are that weak on the inside. You go out of your house feeling very confident about yourself then suddenly you meet someone or a group of people who will look at you weirdly then lough for no reason then you start feeling bad about yourself thinking there’s something wrong with you.

Trust me nothing is wrong with you, those guys who stand there on the side of the street waiting for passerbys to come pass by. They have nothing to do, their lives are pathetic and they know it, that’s why they try to make themselves feel better by loughing at people like.

Never feel bad or sorry for yourself just because someone wants you to. You are stronger than you think. Become your own man, become someone whom you believe in , become someone who you trust.

Become someone who can filter information you receive, if you hear bad things that will get you down then don’t bother processing the info just filter out everything bad.

Have the courage to stick out, when you believe in something then don’t be afraid or ashamed of it just because other people’s views don’t go hand in hand with yours. Be your own Man.

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Self improvement {Accepting who you are}

Rather than striving to be the best it’s always better to always do your best

In life you are not always gonna be the best at everything, somewhere along the way and not even once there are some people who are going to prove that they just do certain things better than you can and that does not mean you are any less than them. The best thing for you is to always do your best by putting your best effort and you will get get what you deserve.

Never judge yourself by the results of other people, Never compare yourself with other people. Learn to be fruitful with your life, learn to focus on your life and learn to be content with what you have.

Keep doing what you do, Keep doing what you can do and never be upset with what you can’t do. Learn to live in peace with yourself and enjoy your everyday life.

Find a purpose with your life and live a purposeful life, Appreciate everything, appreciate everyday life and appreciate yourself.

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The power of Perseverance {Endurance}

Nothing is ever permanent in life everything comes to go.

Ever felt like things weren’t ever gonna be okay or alright for you, Ever felt like you were the most unlucky person on earth, like no matter how hard you try you always end up in the same place you began.

Well this happens to the best of us, We all go through that period in our lives, The period where we get stuck in one place and the only movement that occurs is when we slide two steps backwards and one step forward repeatedly until we get tired of the process cause there won’t be any progress.

The sun is a perfect example of some of our lives, Everyday it rises, shines brighter only to set, Some days the sky may be overcast and the sun may not appear the whole day and end up setting. But that does not mean that it never rose.

You might not have noticed but the sun did rise, And if it hasn’t then it definitely will. Nothing can ever stop the sun from from coming, Nothing can ever stop summer from coming, you just have to endure the winter season and the nights cause they are never permanent, You just have to go through them, Grow through them and learn from them.

Learn to persevere, learn to be persevere and all will be well

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Forgiveness { how to use forgiveness as a tool in your life}

The power of moving on

Forgiveness is the power that will change a life of defeat into one of victory, forgiveness is intentional and voluntary. When you forgive someone or even yourself you let go of the negative emotions that will be surrounding you and in a way hindering your progress.

Forgiveness does not mean you have to forget, or you have to condone excuses and bad behavior. Forgiveness has to start somewhere, Maybe you were deeply hurt in life and no matter how much you try to move on and try to forget it’s impossible so you start hating more and begin to seek or have vengeful thoughts.

I know life is not just that you can just wake up today and forgive and forget, then it will be over and done with. Forgiveness is a process it may take a lifetime to fully heal for some wounds and some may take a little while.

But the great thing about forgiveness is that you will be freeing yourself from negativity and hate, You will be able to breathe without pain, you will be able to live freely without worries. Forgiveness allows you to move on in life. It allows you to take a stand in your own life and it allows you to have a different perspective on life, a perspective that allows you to see yourself as a Victor and not as a victim.

Forgiveness allows you to gain a Victor mentality and does away with the victim mentality. The bigger the hurt you have encountered in life the harder and more time it takes to fully forgive. Don’t rush forgiveness give it time.

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The key to a healthy life

Negativity is bad for everyone, stay away from negative thoughts, negative news, negative people and negative things

Strive to be the best, always be positive about every situation, take a time out or breather if you feel your thoughts are too clouded. Breathe fresh air daily when you wake up early.

If you want to avoid fights and arguments then think before you speak. Don’t be too quick to judge things even life. Appreciate everything you have and take joy in the little things that happen to you.

Perfom random acts of kindness every now and then . Exercise well and eat healthy

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How to make this year the best year ever

How to make this year a great year.

Watch less television at night.

Sleep early

Wake up early or join the early risers club.

Spend less time on social media

Take a time out and enjoy nature’s winders

Read self improvement books

Engage in meditation activities so that you can get your focus back.

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Life has its consequences.

Don’t live life carelessly

Believe me you, life is not a fairytale where is always a happily ever after in the end, life is no movie where you get things easily and freely without ever working hard just because it’s fate, destiny or meant to be. Here in the real life you get what you deserve and nothing more than that.

Shortcuts in life will never work, they will misguide you and lead you astray. Hard work is the only thing that pays. You will always reap what you sow and not what you wish for.

All of our actions have equal but opposite consequences in our lives, if you slack off now, party hard and live life carelessly. Life will reward you for that just as you deserve to be rewarded.

In life it’s not wrong to be carefree, but always be careful of how you live your life, Remember tomorrow is another day and nothing can ever stop tomorrow from being a day. Beware of the steps you take in your life. Make sure that whatever you do today does not become a thorn or barrier in your future life.

Become more careful of how you live your life, and don’t strive to be a disappointment to yourself and the people who people in you. Think about yourself first before acting on some actions or decisions.

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A lot of people take pride in how they have not changed, donโ€™t be a lot of people take pride in how you have changed and transformed your life and those of the others near you.

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Positivity {the power of a single positive thought}

Don’t just let it change your day let it also change who you are and how you view the world

What was, what is and what will Instantly becomes meaningless if you become negative

Always believe in yourself, trust yourself and have a little faith

Have you ever met or talked to someone who just made you feel like you weren’t good enough, like no matter how hard you try you will always be average. Those people who are so bitter about life after talking to them you will feel like you will never be able to make it in life, you will never be successful, never be good enough and certainly never be happy. Well I would like to say this to you stay away from those people, stay away from negative people and their negativity they will do nothing but bring you down.

Only you have the power, ability and strength to greatly improve your life, no one but you knows your truest capabilities If you think and say you are able, then it is so. What you think of yourself you become. No one is ever too small or too big, too smart or too slow but you are always smart enough, slow enough, big enough and small enough. The world is what you make of it.

YOU HAVE THE POWER to make bad situations into perfect situations, to make bad days into great days, you have the power to filter negative thoughts and people from your life, you have the power to be great, to be successful, to improve, to achieve, to be the best and finally you have the power to choose who you are, what you are, and what you become.

All of this can be attained through the power of positive thoughts, through positive thoughts you are stronger, mightier and smarter than you think.

Embrace positivity and positive thoughts today and change the way you view the world.

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Motivation of the week

Persistence is the key to success. Dreams are not just meant for sleeping, they can be pushed to become reality. Author unkown.

Motivation of the week

Self improvement and self reflection

# self love

QUESTION

If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”

MY ANSWER.

My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.

What is your one answer, comment below on the comments section and let me hear what you think.

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Sunday scripture

For “whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved”

Romans 10vs13

What is to be human

To err is human

To be human is to be able to love others, love yourself, accept situations just as they are, to be kind, to be able to make mistakes, to accept your mistakes, to know that you won’t always be the best, to be able to be happy for other people.

Being human is not as hard as being inhumane. Being human is a choice that one can choose to be, it is an option in life. And can never be too late to choose to be human.

Also being human is choosing to do right, choosing to have a conscience, choosing not to look down on other people irregardless of their background, color or even status and choosing to be fair by showing no partialism.

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Healing for the soul

Take a time out,take a breather.

Relax sit next to the window, take a cup of coffee enjoy it.

See everything there is to see outside, notice what you’ve never noticed before.

How do you feel now.

Appreciate everything there is to life, be thankful for everything that you’ve got, and also be aware of your surroundings.

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