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WHAT IS A FRIEND

True friend’s will never be ashamed of you

A person who walks in when others walk out is a true friend. Friends are life’s preservers.

Fake friends are people who only appear when its convinient, they are people who are always there but never really truly there when needed.

Fake friends are like this, during the dry season they are nowhere to be found; they only come flowing in with the water during the Rainy season.

They never come bearing any gifts yet they always leave with something. They are the first to disapprove and discourage you whenever you have a good idea or believe in something. They will never believe in you, your ideas and your abilities. They stick with you because they believe they are better than you in every way. They are always ready to lough at your failures and mistakes. They believe they are in some kind of competition with you, hence they rejoice when you hit a push back or stumble in life.

Fake friends spend more time talking rather than lestening. FAKE FRIEND ARE LIKE SHADOWS, They are there during the good times but as soon as the sun sets THEY DISSAPPEAR.

Becareful of who you hang around, be aware of your surroundings and your surrounders. If you’ve got fake friends hanging around you all the time you dont have to please anyone just CUT THEM OFF. If you are a fake friend to someone or somebody CHANGE YOUR WAYS TODAY.

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How to find happiness

Memories bring us together

Life afflictions are for a moment while glory is eternal

Memories bring joy, Everytime you sit alone and in peace you remember the past, its always the best place to escape to when you feel troubled.

Good memories provide solace while other memories provide appreciation i.e they make you appreciate life more. Memories make us whole.

They provide us with a sense of where we are going in life, Where we’ve been and were we are. Sometimes when the presence becomes so overwhelming just dive back into the past , try to remember why you are who you are, how you got into the position that you’re in today and why you ever started, I assure you when you get these answers your perception and point of view will definately change and you will be suprised when you find yourself feeling more eager about life and your daily tasks.

Never forget who you are, who you were when you were a child and who you wished to become when you were little cause childrens dreams and wishes are often the purest and truest of them all.

Carry the faith that you had in yourself when you were little. And perhaps when you’re old and you’ve forgotten just remember and your memories will remind you.

#DONT FORGET TO REMEMBER.

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The power of imagination

Imagination makes ideas into reality

Reality is not real, the real reality is what you imagine.

Imagination is key to succeeding life. Without imagination nothing is possible. IMAGINATION OPENS DOORS.

It creates things that do not exist, it makes things real. Before you do anything in life first picture it in your imagination then no matter how hard it is to do, that picture in your imagination will be the force that drives you to keep going even when you feel like giving up.

Your imagination is the only thing that has the power to decide whether something can be or something cannot be. VALUE IT, its more preciouse than gold.

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Life advice

We don’t always have to agree with one another, but it’s important that we learn to respect each other.

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Where to seek guidance

Today when I woke up I started thinking about life in general. Looking at my age I realized that I have not aged even a single day I still feel young enough, And even my seventy year old grandfather still feels the same and that’s when I came to the realization that only our bodies […]

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Self improvement (life)

Happiness is from within

No one will ever really make you happy in life, only you have the power to bring happiness into your life.

Some people believe that relationships make them happy, full and complete in life. But in most cases that is usually not the case.

Relationships do bring happines but only for a short time. For a little time you are happy in love but then comes a time when you spend your time just crying and thinking about the other person (him or her).

If you are feeling unloved or lonely in life, trust me what you are looking for in relationships you wont find.

If love had the power then hunger, poverty and misunderstandings would be of no harm to your relationship, they would neither have any power nor any impact, And they they would pose no threat to your relationship.

If you are lacking love in your life then most probably its self love that you are lacking. Its dangerous to love someone more than you love yourself. Be fair to everyone including yourself.

Dont let the illusion that they show on tvs about how relationships complete people or make people complete each other. These are matters that other people just cant fix only you can.

You can beat low self esteem, deppresion JUST LEARN AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. How can love exist if you cant feel it for yourself.

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Self improvement (the sun will rise again)

You are never alone

This message is for all those who are in tough times, all those who feel as though life has abandoned them, And all those who have never seen a single light shine in their lives.

When life seems bleak and all hope has faded know that you are not alone, even during the worst of all times, when living seems to bring more pain than death,when death seems to be a better option, you must know you are not alone,When it it seems like the sun has set on you and darkness is infinite you mustn't lose hope cause the sun will rise again.Through the darkest time of your life you must know  you are not alone, you just need to take a deep look and you will see that you were never alone and you will never be alone.We are always there for you just open your eyes you will see, You will see that beyond all that pain and misery there is  unseen joy. Unrecognised love for you and unattended family 

Self improvement tips.

Great life tips for individuals

First of all I would like to apologise to my faithful audience and visitors for not being able to post daily. Things have not been easy in life, One bad thing after the other. But through hope I’ve been able juggle and cope with everything hoping it will all get better so here goes hope you like and enjoy my post.

Have you ever wondered why life is so complicated, so full of ups and downs, bumps and unsteadiness. Well you should stop wondering cause life is not that complicated, it’s actually way simpler than we will ever think.

Life is what we make of it, the moment we stop acting on life life starts to act on us. Every action we make whether it’s today, tomorrow, small or even big has a direct but opposite consequence in our lives so act wisely and think before you do anything. #Be wise.

Tomorrow is today waiting to happen. Don’t think of doing it tomorrow or waiting for tomorrow to come so it can be done just remember tomorrow is a result of today’s actions. The future is now.

N.B always be yourself. Never do anything to impress other people. Those who love you will always be there for you no matter the circumstances.

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The key to a healthy life

Negativity is bad for everyone, stay away from negative thoughts, negative news, negative people and negative things

Strive to be the best, always be positive about every situation, take a time out or breather if you feel your thoughts are too clouded. Breathe fresh air daily when you wake up early.

If you want to avoid fights and arguments then think before you speak. Don’t be too quick to judge things even life. Appreciate everything you have and take joy in the little things that happen to you.

Perfom random acts of kindness every now and then . Exercise well and eat healthy

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Self improvement and self reflection

# self love

QUESTION

If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”

MY ANSWER.

My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.

What is your one answer, comment below on the comments section and let me hear what you think.

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True happiness

What does it take to be happy.

Some say it’s a once in a lifetime thing, some say it’s an everyday feeling,some don’t even know what it is. Happiness is hard to find,we spend so much time trying to be happy so much that we end up forgetting what happiness is in the first place.

What does it take for you to be happy? This is a question that is often asked but rarely answered.

Are you happy in your life

How many times in your life have you ever been truly happy

Ask yourselves these questions and try to do some soul searching.

What is life

The journey of life

Life is a four letter word that represents the beginning and the end of one’s journey on earth, it represents all the decisions good or bad that one might make in this journey of life, it is a record of all the things that one goes through, and all the emotions that one discovers while they walk this journey.

The starting point of the journey of life is when one is born, the journey it’s self is when one is growing up and living life , this may be when one is a child, a teenager,and finally an adult, The finish line bieng when one dies or finally becomes one with the soil.

In this journey of life if you take shortcuts you are likely to arrive at your destination a little earlier than expected and that means you die sooner or at a young age.

Everything has its time and everyone has their own purpose in life, When you enter this world you are heavily armoured with different talents and gifts that you must use to make a difference in earth.

We are all different in a way such that we are like different pieces of a puzzle, we are very different yet together we make one grand masterpiece, we are all traveling individually different journeys but they all interlock at different intersections, in this journey of life we meet and part ways with different people that may be friends, enemies, partners or even family, But in the end we all exit this journey alone.

To be continued………… πŸ™

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Self improvement and life advice

There is no difference between mountains whether it is the highest or the lowest a mountain is always a mountain how you see it is what matters. (Methembe Mbambo)

When the slope is steep you are bound to stumble several times, don’t confuse stumbling with failure.

No one is born as a failure but most of us die as failure's.
Life is always fair and rewarding to those who are deserving.
Failure is a figment of the imagination and so is success, if you imagine yourself to be successful you instantly become so.
Hard work pays.

Why do people expect bad times to be brief, if good times are forever.

  • Never doubt yourself.
  • A simple idea can become a millionaire idea if worked on correctly.
  • Try, try, try again sooner or later you are bound to succeed.
  • Failure is the ability to give up and move on.
  • Necessity is the mother of invention, think of it like that always

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Best life advice

Great dreamers’ dreams are never fulfilled, they are always transcended. Alfred Lord Whitehead

How to successfully Catch up on new years resolutions

New year’s resolutions

If you don’t act on life, life has a habit of acting on you. It’s almost January and do you know what that means the count down to the month end is fastly approaching.

-What does that mean for you?
– What does that mean for those New year’s your resolutions that you made
-Did you just suddenly remember those resolutions that you made weeks ago?

The days slip into weeks, the weeks slip into months,the months slip into years and the years slip into never. That’s how the ordinary man lives his life, always putting things on hold and always putting things on standby in his mind thinking he has more than enough time to do them untill finally he loses sight of the things that matter and he starts living an empty life that is filled with pain and regret.

If only he knew that all of that could be changed by just one decision,one simple decision probably the easiest decision ever in life, that is to act on your ideas and vision’s

It’s the same with a new year’s resolution, you keep sidelining them and postponing them untill one day it’s another new year and you still haven’t done anything something that you were so eager to do when the year started just suddenly turned into a boring unappealing task that you just can’t do no matter how much you try.

The key to defeating this is following up on your actions and tracking your progress. If you do this daily, weekly or monthly then you are sure to see when and where you are slacking.

It’s that easy you just have to track your movements, find your weaknesses and practice consistent on your goals

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Best life lessons

Life is all about forgiving and asking for forgiveness, forgiving others gives you peace and allows you to move on in life.

It’s never too late to realise your dreams or make them a reality, now is always the right time.

Never allow your yourself to sit on the sidelines of life if you are able move.

Life doesn’t wait for anyone or anything and so should you.

Your happiness does not come from people’s approval but from your own achievements

Never delay just follow the process

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Best life motivation

Always remember why you started
When you feel like quitting remember why you started, how bad do you want it
When you feel like quitting remember that it’s all about you
When you feel like quitting remember that pain is not permanent it’s temporary
When you feel like quitting remember that you started this and only you can finish it
When you feel like quitting remember that this may be where you are but this is not who you are

Do not allow yourself to sit on the sidelines of life
You are destined for greatness
Your purpose can only be fully fulfilled by you

YOU MAY BE IN DEFEAT BUT YOU ARE NOT DEFEATED.

Best life adviceHow to live life without regrets

Children listen to your elders they are never wrong, they have seen this world for what it truly is
Life is a journey if you speed up too fast you won’t be able to notice important things, you won’t be able to enjoy your journey and chances are high that you will lose
Don’t live the life of a 30year old if you are just 15, don’t hang around or play with people that are not your peers or of your age group, trust me those were before you were, they have had much more experience in this world than you have and so they know all the trickery tricks of this world

Life adviceHow to heal from past mistakes

Everyone makes mistakes in life whether big or small they are all mistakes never bother yourself about things you cannot change, If it’s done then it’s done the best you can do is to learn from it and make sure that history doesn’t repeat it’s self.

Mistakes happen and they are very common, just make sure that you do not purposely make mistakes that you can avoid because very often the price to pay is high.

If you have made mistakes in the past and you would like to reform but you can’t because no matter how much you try you can’t seem to forget or forgive yourself just know that blaming yourself won’t help either you have to start healing slowly maybe one day at a time, accept it that you made these mistakes and acknowledge that there’s nothing you can do now and try by all means not to be caught up in things like that again and try to be careful and good.

Time is a very unique thing it has the ability to heal and work on everything. Use it wisely and to your best interest.

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Best life advice

The purpose of life is to be happy, so do what makes you happy

Best life advice

There is time for everthing

Summer, Autumn, Winter, Spring. They are different seasons for every year and so they are different seasons for every part of your life. It might be winter for you, and maybe just maybe that’s why everything seems difficult and all seems lost just like the tree above which has lost all its leaves because it’s winter and they is no water so it has to compromise by shedding it’s leaves, but don’t lose hope because summer is coming, Your time to bloom is near

It takes a bigger man to make peace with everyone
Pain will change us, how the pain changes you is up to you , you can come out bitter or you can come out better,you can come out defeated or you can come out much stronger and with a passion for your dreams
No pain no gain

Pain is necessary, every struggle makes you grow stronger don’t complain about pain because it’s what defines you
Difficulties are a part of life don’t tell yourself that you are so weak you can’t manage.

NB: don’t just go through it, grow through it

Best life advice

The man who forgives and let’s go is always known as the bigger man. He is the one who always finds peace with everything, you know the one who is always glad that that happened, the one who is always happy, the one who always trusts in the sense that everything happens for a reason and that struggles make him stronger.

He is the one who grows from his struggles, he doesn’t just go through them he also grows through them. He is the one that believes in himself, the one that knows that pain is a necessity in life, He knows that without bad times in life then he wouldn’t know and appreciate the good times in life.

But the other man is the one that always seeks revenge and is always out to get it but discovers once he has got it that it isn’t that satisfying and it doesn’t make you happy
He is never happy and always wonder’s why, Life isn’t fair and that’s what he always thinks

Which man do you wanna be?
Which man do you choose to be?

It’s always up to you it’s either you treat everything that happens to you as an experience that you learn from or you just choose to sulk over everything

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How to succeed in life

Live your dream
Become your dream
Breathe your dream
Picture yourself succeeding
Be your dream
Dream your achievements
Be ready for success
Work towards your dream
Make your dream your passion
Be determined about your goals
Make it a do or die
Care only about your own progress
Make succeeding for you a must