Self love, learning to be yourself

True happiness is when you are with the people who love and appreciate you for who you truly are.

Surely not everyone is gonna love you in life, Not everyone is gonna like you in life. If you haven’t then someday you are gonna meet some haters, some pretenders and some fake people.You have to be smart and be able to read a person’s character clearly, you have to be able to recognize your true friends and family not only in bad times but also in good times.

Fake people, fake friends and pretenders are those people who appear only when times are good, they are those people whom you have to impress on a daily basis, they are those people who never really care about you, But only care about their status in society, ie, (they only roll with the high rollers, if you can’t afford to be one any more then they discard of you).

I wonder why most of us humans are foolish enough to keep repeating the same mistakes time and time again, we see these things happening everyday and almost to everyone but we end up getting back to the same trap over and over again. IF THEY WON’T LET YOU BE YOUR TRUE SELF,IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOUR TRUE SELF, THEN THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS, they are simply not worth it.

Learn to love yourself first, learn to be yourself first and surely real people will start flowing into your , real people who will love you for who you are. Their presence will overpower the scarcity and need of love in your life so much that you will end up not having any void in your life. Happiness will over flow into your life.

Choose yourself by choosing to be real, bieng real ain’t easy but it’s the best thing you can ever do for yourself in life.

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Self improvement {trust}

Trust in your hard work

I wonder why, Everytime things start to get better bad things happen. It seems that bad the bad things that happen to us always overshadow the good things that happen to us. It seems we are more prone of bad things happening to us than we are of good things.

Everytime you start making progress in your life, something happens and you end up in the same place you began. I often feel and think that life isn’t fair, But that doesn’t help me ever, sulking and getting depressed may make you feel special or better but it doesn’t make the situation any better.

No matter how bad life may seem, I believe brighter days are always in store, Believe hope and trust that things will get better and surely one day if not today they will. Focus on the good and positives of life cause no matter how little they are good things always have bigger footsteps in our lives than bad things.

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The meaning of Easter

Jesus died for all our sons and rose again

I believe in Jesus Christ, I believe Jesus was offered as a sacrifice just so you and I can live a better life, just so you and I can live a life free of sin.

Every year during the first week of April there is a Passover feast, A Passover feast is a feast whereby we remember Jesus Christ on the cross. We as humans were given a chance, A chance to live an everlasting life amd a chance to live a happy life only through Jesus Christ on the cross.

A life free of sin is a life free of worries, sin makes us miserable, even though we don’t realize it sin makes us unhappy. Jesus Christ on the cross did not bind us to a life of rules and regulations but he freed us from the life of sin, He made us worthy beings.

Before you were, Jesus Christ already loved you. The minute you were born his love for you did not change, Jesus Christ died for everyone on the cross, he died for me and you, he died so we could be freed, he sacrificed himself for you and I. And even though we didn’t know him yet and hadn’t accepted him, he didn’t back out, he still died for you and me.

Jesus died so we could live, Jesus Christ died so we could live free from sin, he died so we could live. JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU.

Happy Easter everyone

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Self Development {The power of filtering bad news.}

How strong are you? Dig deep enough and you will discover that some of us just ain’t that strong enough. Our defense walls easily crumble the instant someone passes a bad comment at us.

We are vulnerable on the inside, we let stranger’s dictate to us how we should talk, how we should dress, how we should be and how we should live our lives.

We are that weak on the inside. You go out of your house feeling very confident about yourself then suddenly you meet someone or a group of people who will look at you weirdly then lough for no reason then you start feeling bad about yourself thinking there’s something wrong with you.

Trust me nothing is wrong with you, those guys who stand there on the side of the street waiting for passerbys to come pass by. They have nothing to do, their lives are pathetic and they know it, that’s why they try to make themselves feel better by loughing at people like.

Never feel bad or sorry for yourself just because someone wants you to. You are stronger than you think. Become your own man, become someone whom you believe in , become someone who you trust.

Become someone who can filter information you receive, if you hear bad things that will get you down then don’t bother processing the info just filter out everything bad.

Have the courage to stick out, when you believe in something then don’t be afraid or ashamed of it just because other people’s views don’t go hand in hand with yours. Be your own Man.

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Self improvement {Accepting who you are}

Rather than striving to be the best it’s always better to always do your best

In life you are not always gonna be the best at everything, somewhere along the way and not even once there are some people who are going to prove that they just do certain things better than you can and that does not mean you are any less than them. The best thing for you is to always do your best by putting your best effort and you will get get what you deserve.

Never judge yourself by the results of other people, Never compare yourself with other people. Learn to be fruitful with your life, learn to focus on your life and learn to be content with what you have.

Keep doing what you do, Keep doing what you can do and never be upset with what you can’t do. Learn to live in peace with yourself and enjoy your everyday life.

Find a purpose with your life and live a purposeful life, Appreciate everything, appreciate everyday life and appreciate yourself.

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Bible verses

Psalms 91 verse 1

He who dwells in the secret place of the almighty shall abide under the shadow of the almighty

VERSE 2. I will say to the Lord “he is my refuge and my fortress; My God in, him I will trust”.

Forgiveness { how to use forgiveness as a tool in your life}

The power of moving on

Forgiveness is the power that will change a life of defeat into one of victory, forgiveness is intentional and voluntary. When you forgive someone or even yourself you let go of the negative emotions that will be surrounding you and in a way hindering your progress.

Forgiveness does not mean you have to forget, or you have to condone excuses and bad behavior. Forgiveness has to start somewhere, Maybe you were deeply hurt in life and no matter how much you try to move on and try to forget it’s impossible so you start hating more and begin to seek or have vengeful thoughts.

I know life is not just that you can just wake up today and forgive and forget, then it will be over and done with. Forgiveness is a process it may take a lifetime to fully heal for some wounds and some may take a little while.

But the great thing about forgiveness is that you will be freeing yourself from negativity and hate, You will be able to breathe without pain, you will be able to live freely without worries. Forgiveness allows you to move on in life. It allows you to take a stand in your own life and it allows you to have a different perspective on life, a perspective that allows you to see yourself as a Victor and not as a victim.

Forgiveness allows you to gain a Victor mentality and does away with the victim mentality. The bigger the hurt you have encountered in life the harder and more time it takes to fully forgive. Don’t rush forgiveness give it time.

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