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The power of smart decisions

Smart choices always get you ahead in life no matter what the circumstances are.

Only a number of people in life are smart, Most f us humans never really bother thinking about the future, past or even present. We never really plan for Life this we always find ourselves struggling to to really live life to he fullest.

Wisdom is rare among humans, people who always do things for the now rarely have a future. See here’s the thing, in life there’s always a shot-run and a long-run, if you fail to plan for the future and make poor decisions and choices that may benefit you in the short run which is the now then know that in the long-run which is the future those bad little choices or decisions definetly become thorns that prick life out of you.

But here’s the great part smart choices may mean a Little hardwork and toil in the present, a little less fun and more seriousness in the now but the best thing about this is that smart choices may you wiser, they make you smarter and they definitely guarantee a better tomorrow.

In everything you do always remember that tommorow is the only thing that’s forever. If pleasure today means the opposite tomorrow then choose what’s best for you and what will last you. Friends are never permanent,parties are not permanent but as long as you are living you are. Here’s an example, Smoking may be fun today but lung cancer isn’t won’t be tomorrow #choose wiser

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Self improvement {trust}

Trust in your hard work

I wonder why, Everytime things start to get better bad things happen. It seems that bad the bad things that happen to us always overshadow the good things that happen to us. It seems we are more prone of bad things happening to us than we are of good things.

Everytime you start making progress in your life, something happens and you end up in the same place you began. I often feel and think that life isn’t fair, But that doesn’t help me ever, sulking and getting depressed may make you feel special or better but it doesn’t make the situation any better.

No matter how bad life may seem, I believe brighter days are always in store, Believe hope and trust that things will get better and surely one day if not today they will. Focus on the good and positives of life cause no matter how little they are good things always have bigger footsteps in our lives than bad things.

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Forgiveness { how to use forgiveness as a tool in your life}

The power of moving on

Forgiveness is the power that will change a life of defeat into one of victory, forgiveness is intentional and voluntary. When you forgive someone or even yourself you let go of the negative emotions that will be surrounding you and in a way hindering your progress.

Forgiveness does not mean you have to forget, or you have to condone excuses and bad behavior. Forgiveness has to start somewhere, Maybe you were deeply hurt in life and no matter how much you try to move on and try to forget it’s impossible so you start hating more and begin to seek or have vengeful thoughts.

I know life is not just that you can just wake up today and forgive and forget, then it will be over and done with. Forgiveness is a process it may take a lifetime to fully heal for some wounds and some may take a little while.

But the great thing about forgiveness is that you will be freeing yourself from negativity and hate, You will be able to breathe without pain, you will be able to live freely without worries. Forgiveness allows you to move on in life. It allows you to take a stand in your own life and it allows you to have a different perspective on life, a perspective that allows you to see yourself as a Victor and not as a victim.

Forgiveness allows you to gain a Victor mentality and does away with the victim mentality. The bigger the hurt you have encountered in life the harder and more time it takes to fully forgive. Don’t rush forgiveness give it time.

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Surprise {the power of being aware}

#Life and it’s surprise

Surprise —— it is the element of being caught unaware or unknowingly

Have you ever been surprised by something in life. Or has life ever surprised you. Most of us live our lives as the surprised, we are always unaware of what’s gonna happen next.

Rush in life, never be late. Dont let the winter come and find you without a fireplace you will freeze to death. Never be caught unaware this is your life OWN IT.

Don’t allow time to pass you without you even noticing, Either you be on time or you get ahead of time.

Let your success become the lighting that strikes anyway and anytime. Surprise yourself by how far you can go, by how far you can endure and by how much you can do.

Only perception matters don’t be disturbed and distracted by your past mistakes and life’s failure’s. Be aware of your surrounding, your strength and your will power don’t allow time, life and failure to work the element of surprise on you. Be aware and always ready.

You are more intelligent than you think and far more stronger than you ever guessed. Don’t let failure, disappointments and life beat you to death. LIVE Outstandingly. It’s never too late

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Positivity {the power of a single positive thought}

Don’t just let it change your day let it also change who you are and how you view the world

What was, what is and what will Instantly becomes meaningless if you become negative

Always believe in yourself, trust yourself and have a little faith

Have you ever met or talked to someone who just made you feel like you weren’t good enough, like no matter how hard you try you will always be average. Those people who are so bitter about life after talking to them you will feel like you will never be able to make it in life, you will never be successful, never be good enough and certainly never be happy. Well I would like to say this to you stay away from those people, stay away from negative people and their negativity they will do nothing but bring you down.

Only you have the power, ability and strength to greatly improve your life, no one but you knows your truest capabilities If you think and say you are able, then it is so. What you think of yourself you become. No one is ever too small or too big, too smart or too slow but you are always smart enough, slow enough, big enough and small enough. The world is what you make of it.

YOU HAVE THE POWER to make bad situations into perfect situations, to make bad days into great days, you have the power to filter negative thoughts and people from your life, you have the power to be great, to be successful, to improve, to achieve, to be the best and finally you have the power to choose who you are, what you are, and what you become.

All of this can be attained through the power of positive thoughts, through positive thoughts you are stronger, mightier and smarter than you think.

Embrace positivity and positive thoughts today and change the way you view the world.

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Self improvement and self reflection

# self love

QUESTION

If I wasn’t an obese, shy, quite and unemployed young man who looked like he was 40, has no fashion style, lacks confidence, has no self esteem and lacks self love. WOULD YOU HOLD MY HAND EVERYWHERE YOU GO AND WOULD I BECOME VISIBLE TO YOUR LOVE ?”

MY ANSWER.

My accepting you won’t change the way you think about yourself, it won’t change your reality and certainly wouldn’t change the way you are and it wouldn’t make you any less to insecure, So before you allow me to love you, first accept who you are, embrace who you are and learn to love yourself. Only then can your life be great.

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Self improvement and food for the soul.

Why do we fight to live if we are living to die.

“I strongly believe that life is not meant to be lived but to be endured.”

Bad things do happen to good people, whether we like it or not the odds of bad luck befalling us are always up and higher. Being good in life does not mean that life will run smoothly for you, Just as you expect good things to happen to you also expect and prepare for the opposite.

Life is not fair, most of us do not live life but we survive it, Yes I know it’s unsettling but it’s the reality. Life is what happens to is when we are busy preparing for it, and most of the time we hardly like what life has in store for us. To survive life we have to be able to endure it and to endure it we have to have patience.

I often ask myself this question “WHY DO WE FIGHT TO LIVE IF WE ARE LIVING TO DIE.” But most of the time I just convince myself that that’s just the way it is, You know once I knew someone who committed suicide because things were bad in life and nothing was ever going right, everything was just a mess and so at the age of eighteen he thought he was better of dead than alive and yes he succeeded in doing so and today he is no More.

It you ever feel like that in life always remember out there they is someone who’s always had it worse than you, we are all fighting our own battles, that no one but ourselves can ever win. Consider everything as a test in life, choose to be a NEVERTHELESS person in life. “Even though life is difficult and not working out for me nevertheless I will keep on trying”

Being a Nevertheless person, it means that no matter what the conditions and situation are in your life you know that it won’t always stay that way and things will get better.

So to answer my question today we fight to live even though we’re living to die because that’s how it’s meant to be. That’s how our lives are supposed to be. That’s how life is.

No life is perfect and ready for you to live you have to create your own life, one that you will live, like and love.

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The hard truth about life

The truth about life.

The hard fact about life is that you have to live with your decisions but you don’t always to live with your friends.

When you have nothing to lose, then you definitely have everything to gain.

What is a picture

What is a picture?

It is an image, it is a moment saved in time, it is a moment frozen in time And it is a moment that is captured from time and saved as a memory in the form of a tangible image. Pictures hold visual memories of ourselves and our past, They are supposed to be reminders that remind us even when we’ve forgotten how that moment was or how it felt during that moment in time.

Memories are treasures their value cannot be measured as they are too valuable, pictures are also containers or storages of our memories.

But nowadays people do not value the memories that pictures hold, they take for granted the value of photos or pictures, We now know how to be fake, how to smile when you are frowning just because we wanna click that amazing selfie.

We now click photos and post them on various social media accounts, just so we can get those many likes and follows. Even when we are sad we click photos with hashtags like never been happier just so we can convince others that all is well. Theย  “others” being the people that we never really met with ever in our lives. They are the people that we’ve met only online.

We now have a habit of displaying false realities in pictures, we are no longer real even to our selves we now live fake lives that are sucking and draining the life out of us.

To be continued

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What is life {Part 2}

Time is never on your side

In this journey of life we might have friend’s, family or even loved ones that may keep us company for a short time or even a long time on earth but in the end we will always find ourselves walking alone because our destination’s differ and that means our arrival’s and departures on earth are also different.

Nothing is permanent, everything is temporary. Time is the only thing that is there forever, But we we aren’t that is why we have to conserve our time on earth and use it wisely. They say time is precious and I agree, there will come a time when all the people from our generation will cease to exist, learn from this time will always be there but we won’t, on this Earth we are only passing by. Time is not our’s to keep it’s for us to use.

As soon we are born we begin to die, this only means one thing for us and that is we are born to die, our time living or on earth is limited, we live on borrowed time and one day it’s gonna run out and we are gonna have to give it back.

Live your life in such a way that you will achieve all you can ever achieve and still e happy, don’t become friends with procrastination it will cheat you and leave you sad, alone and out of time.

Excell in living by being on time, Do everything in time and you will never get tired, in this journey of life don’t rush things and don’t jump growing up just because you wanna be an adult, You will get old before your time and you will arrive at your destination earlier than expected and that means an early departure for you and directly results in you dying early or living a very short life.

Don’t experiment with things that are not yet of your age they will mess you up. Rather be a kid if you are a kid, don’t rush Life cause it will rush you also. But never be late with your time because it will get finished without you ever getting to use it.

Don’t be early and don’t be late with life, Rather in this journey of life always be on time and have patience with everything.

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Inspirational word’s

You only live once so live outstanding

What is life

The journey of life

Life is a four letter word that represents the beginning and the end of one’s journey on earth, it represents all the decisions good or bad that one might make in this journey of life, it is a record of all the things that one goes through, and all the emotions that one discovers while they walk this journey.

The starting point of the journey of life is when one is born, the journey it’s self is when one is growing up and living life , this may be when one is a child, a teenager,and finally an adult, The finish line bieng when one dies or finally becomes one with the soil.

In this journey of life if you take shortcuts you are likely to arrive at your destination a little earlier than expected and that means you die sooner or at a young age.

Everything has its time and everyone has their own purpose in life, When you enter this world you are heavily armoured with different talents and gifts that you must use to make a difference in earth.

We are all different in a way such that we are like different pieces of a puzzle, we are very different yet together we make one grand masterpiece, we are all traveling individually different journeys but they all interlock at different intersections, in this journey of life we meet and part ways with different people that may be friends, enemies, partners or even family, But in the end we all exit this journey alone.

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How to make money at home as a teenager

How to make money as a teen

Money is a necessity you can’t do without, originally money is gold, paper money is just like a cheque it’s another form of money just like coins of course the real money being gold.

Money is often considered evil, but I guess there is nothing we can do about it, cause when we need it, we really need it.

There are many ways a person can use to make money but here I have compiled just a few of them a teen can use as a form of making money. You can use these methods anywhere in the world ranging from MEDCS (More Economically Developed Countries), LEDCS (Less Economically Developed Countries), First World and Third World countries. Read and enjoy.

[1] STARTING A BLOG.

Although this cannot immediately generate an income it can somehow work as an investment for the future. First you will need to grow n audience and only then can you monetize your blog and start earning. You can ask someone to build you your own website or you can join sites that already exist and create your blog from them e.gย  Bluehost and our very own WordPress, If you can't afford the plans then don't worry you can start your blog on a free plan and upgrade it later if you have gathered some cent's.

You will need to have a passion for the topic that you will be writing about and you will need to know that the numbers shouldn't matter to you as long as you are doing what you love there's nothing that can stop you from succeeding.

USING YOUR CRAFTS OR SKILLS TO make MONEY.

If you know yourself to be good at something then this is something that you should definitely try out.

Handmade crafts
If you are skillful with your hands then crafts are just the thing for you. You can try these set of crafts that I have listed below.

DIY ???????????????
If you have never come across this word then you've definitely been missing out on a lot.
D. Do
I. It
Y. Yourself
And that's the defination.

You can start some diy projects for yourself and here I have compiled a few of them that can help make money for you.

HANDMADE CRAFTS YOU CAN USE TO MAKE MONEY.

  • Baking and selling cookies
  • Extra lessons to others kids
  • Candle making
  • Photography
  • Art teacher
  • Music lessons
  • Become a Musicians
  • Make and sell greeting cards
  • DIY by recycling old materials and making them new e.g jeans to backpack
  • Sewing (you can offer altering services)
  • Bead work
  • DIY phone covers.

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Life

The man in the mirror

Vision is power

Who’s the man in the mirror, what’s he saying to you, are you okay listening to him or does it hurt. Are you proud of the man in the mirror, Is he glad to be you and are you happy to be him.

If not listen to him ask him what needs to be done to change the way he looks at you, what needs to be done to put a smile on his face.

Engage with him, let him in, open up to him, trust him and make him become your greatest treasure.

You don’t need others to be happy you just need yourself, you just need to be yourself. So live your life just as you are don’t change just because other people don’t approve of you be yourself and be happy with who you are. Always appreciate yourself and your life.

Be content with who you are, You are a blessing to yourself and to us. Never even for once think that you are a curse and don’t deserve to succeed or to live, you are needed and you are appreciated, so thank you for being born and thank you for being just the way you are

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Life’s greatest treasure

Life as a a journey that needs preparation

Greetings to all my reader’s it’s been a week since I last wrote to you, And though a week seems like little time, a lot has happened, making me realize what really matters in life. And so I thought what better way to share my knowledge than to blog about it

Life is a journey that no man is prepared for . It is a journey that one has to start on their own, travel on their own and finish on their own. It is a journey of individuality no one but you can journey it. It is a journey that you only get to travel once in your life and it is your life. It is the journey that has never been travelled and never been explored, it is your journey

In this journey of life you’ve got many turns and pretty much get lost many times before finding your way. If you rush in this journey you will get tired and won’t be able to finish your journey, if you ignore the signs and fail to heed the advice you will get lost, stumble and get hurt so you need to be cautious and attentive.

Don’t worry about what others say, focus soley on your own journey and you will see yourself travel smoothly. Remember no shortcut, the way may be long but it’s rewarding.

Achieve what you can when you can. Have dreams and hopes in life, trust yourself to be able to fulfill those hopes and dreams, be inspired by everything that surrounds you and take a minute to appreciate life every day.

May all be well for you, I rest my case till next time signed well wisher

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Best life advice

Letting go in life sometimes goes a long way

Best Motivational story 2021

Box full of Kisses

Be at peace wherever you are

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, โ€œThis is for you, Daddy.โ€

The man became embarrassed by his overreaction earlier, but his rage continue when he saw that the box was empty. He yelled at her; โ€œDonโ€™t you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside?โ€
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried;

โ€œOh, Daddy, itโ€™s not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. Theyโ€™re all for you, Daddy.โ€

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child.

Her father kept the gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

It is possible to find solace by peeking into the past, Not all is always lost

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Self improvement, Health and life advice

Be content with what you have, remember hard work pays

Often enough people screw up their lives, drive themselves deep enough into the darkness so much that they get lost in the dark. Soon they start thinking all about the mistakes they have done and end up getting depressed, when they see themselves in their lowest and so down to earth they begin the blame game.

Now it’s somebody else’s fault that you failed in life, it’s never your own fault but someone’s else. If things weren’t like this then my life would be better. Had I never known you then I wouldn’t be in this situation, had things been different then maybe I could be somewhere in life.

You start thinking of a way to escape your misery in life. SUICIDE it’s always the first option you think of, maybe dying would be so much better than living, some of you think that constant mopping is the key, if I always think about my problems and my difficult situation in life maybe somehow it will go away. Some think that neglecting their health, families and lives is the key hence they start to stay alone driving everyone who cares away.

Little do you know how your actions impact everyone around you, the minute you start blaming others for your own mistakes you are charging and finding them guilty of being inhuman and being insesitive. You are indirectly telling them that they are the one’s who are solely responsible for everthing, And trust me being the other guy hurts more than you would imagine, there is nothing more hurtful on earth than being responsible for any hurt or torment caused to another individual. To you it may pass with time but for the accused the wounds may heal but the scars remain.

Never blame anyone for your own mistakes, Accept that you have made a mistake, find a way to move on and focus on the future, keep it in mind that to err is human, Something’s are not in our control

Bad things may have been done to us even though we are good people, we might always be in despair. You might be even thinking why don’t you ever achieve greatness even though you work so hard, Why do you constantly have to be up and running daily just so you can get your daily bread and butter. Why is life so bitter for you if you are so kind, Why are things always going wrong for you if you are so good to everyone and why doesn’t life work out for you if it’s working out for everyone.

Well the truth is that life has a way of working it’s self out, I personally think that your struggles are what define you, if you see yourself going through these hurdles in life that seem to be never ending, these troubles that are always popping up. Don’t worry it’s life that is teaching you, preparing you and moulding you for a better future, just as there is day and night, it’s always gonna be dark before the sun rises and so is your life just know that even thought the sunrise may be longer than expected nothing is ever gonna be able to stop the sun from rising.

Get rid of those weary and worrysome thoughts and start living for today and tomorrow, A lot awaits you.

Live in today and tomorrow forget yesterday, shine brighter than a diamond and you will never be troubled.

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Who shall hear my cry๐Ÿ˜ญ

What do you see when you look at me ?. Can hear the cry of my broken heart which is in agony. I look brave yet my inner soul is trembling. I laugh yet my soul is crying. I feel so alone yet I am sorrounded by people. They say they love me yet I [โ€ฆ]

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Life quotes

Life is no brief candle for me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.

George Bernard Shaw

Growth quotes

“Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”

— Albert Einstein

“Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense.”

— Winston Churchill

How to successfully Catch up on new years resolutions

New year’s resolutions

If you don’t act on life, life has a habit of acting on you. It’s almost January and do you know what that means the count down to the month end is fastly approaching.

-What does that mean for you?
– What does that mean for those New year’s your resolutions that you made
-Did you just suddenly remember those resolutions that you made weeks ago?

The days slip into weeks, the weeks slip into months,the months slip into years and the years slip into never. That’s how the ordinary man lives his life, always putting things on hold and always putting things on standby in his mind thinking he has more than enough time to do them untill finally he loses sight of the things that matter and he starts living an empty life that is filled with pain and regret.

If only he knew that all of that could be changed by just one decision,one simple decision probably the easiest decision ever in life, that is to act on your ideas and vision’s

It’s the same with a new year’s resolution, you keep sidelining them and postponing them untill one day it’s another new year and you still haven’t done anything something that you were so eager to do when the year started just suddenly turned into a boring unappealing task that you just can’t do no matter how much you try.

The key to defeating this is following up on your actions and tracking your progress. If you do this daily, weekly or monthly then you are sure to see when and where you are slacking.

It’s that easy you just have to track your movements, find your weaknesses and practice consistent on your goals

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Best life motivation

Always remember why you started
When you feel like quitting remember why you started, how bad do you want it
When you feel like quitting remember that it’s all about you
When you feel like quitting remember that pain is not permanent it’s temporary
When you feel like quitting remember that you started this and only you can finish it
When you feel like quitting remember that this may be where you are but this is not who you are

Do not allow yourself to sit on the sidelines of life
You are destined for greatness
Your purpose can only be fully fulfilled by you

YOU MAY BE IN DEFEAT BUT YOU ARE NOT DEFEATED.

Life adviceHow to heal from past mistakes

Everyone makes mistakes in life whether big or small they are all mistakes never bother yourself about things you cannot change, If it’s done then it’s done the best you can do is to learn from it and make sure that history doesn’t repeat it’s self.

Mistakes happen and they are very common, just make sure that you do not purposely make mistakes that you can avoid because very often the price to pay is high.

If you have made mistakes in the past and you would like to reform but you can’t because no matter how much you try you can’t seem to forget or forgive yourself just know that blaming yourself won’t help either you have to start healing slowly maybe one day at a time, accept it that you made these mistakes and acknowledge that there’s nothing you can do now and try by all means not to be caught up in things like that again and try to be careful and good.

Time is a very unique thing it has the ability to heal and work on everything. Use it wisely and to your best interest.

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