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The power of smart decisions

Smart choices always get you ahead in life no matter what the circumstances are.

Only a number of people in life are smart, Most f us humans never really bother thinking about the future, past or even present. We never really plan for Life this we always find ourselves struggling to to really live life to he fullest.

Wisdom is rare among humans, people who always do things for the now rarely have a future. See here’s the thing, in life there’s always a shot-run and a long-run, if you fail to plan for the future and make poor decisions and choices that may benefit you in the short run which is the now then know that in the long-run which is the future those bad little choices or decisions definetly become thorns that prick life out of you.

But here’s the great part smart choices may mean a Little hardwork and toil in the present, a little less fun and more seriousness in the now but the best thing about this is that smart choices may you wiser, they make you smarter and they definitely guarantee a better tomorrow.

In everything you do always remember that tommorow is the only thing that’s forever. If pleasure today means the opposite tomorrow then choose what’s best for you and what will last you. Friends are never permanent,parties are not permanent but as long as you are living you are. Here’s an example, Smoking may be fun today but lung cancer isn’t won’t be tomorrow #choose wiser

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Surprise {the power of being aware}

#Life and it’s surprise

Surprise —— it is the element of being caught unaware or unknowingly

Have you ever been surprised by something in life. Or has life ever surprised you. Most of us live our lives as the surprised, we are always unaware of what’s gonna happen next.

Rush in life, never be late. Dont let the winter come and find you without a fireplace you will freeze to death. Never be caught unaware this is your life OWN IT.

Don’t allow time to pass you without you even noticing, Either you be on time or you get ahead of time.

Let your success become the lighting that strikes anyway and anytime. Surprise yourself by how far you can go, by how far you can endure and by how much you can do.

Only perception matters don’t be disturbed and distracted by your past mistakes and life’s failure’s. Be aware of your surrounding, your strength and your will power don’t allow time, life and failure to work the element of surprise on you. Be aware and always ready.

You are more intelligent than you think and far more stronger than you ever guessed. Don’t let failure, disappointments and life beat you to death. LIVE Outstandingly. It’s never too late

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Life quotes

A lot of people take pride in how they have not changed, don’t be a lot of people take pride in how you have changed and transformed your life and those of the others near you.

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Motivation of the week

Persistence is the key to success. Dreams are not just meant for sleeping, they can be pushed to become reality. Author unkown.

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What is life {Part 2}

Time is never on your side

In this journey of life we might have friend’s, family or even loved ones that may keep us company for a short time or even a long time on earth but in the end we will always find ourselves walking alone because our destination’s differ and that means our arrival’s and departures on earth are also different.

Nothing is permanent, everything is temporary. Time is the only thing that is there forever, But we we aren’t that is why we have to conserve our time on earth and use it wisely. They say time is precious and I agree, there will come a time when all the people from our generation will cease to exist, learn from this time will always be there but we won’t, on this Earth we are only passing by. Time is not our’s to keep it’s for us to use.

As soon we are born we begin to die, this only means one thing for us and that is we are born to die, our time living or on earth is limited, we live on borrowed time and one day it’s gonna run out and we are gonna have to give it back.

Live your life in such a way that you will achieve all you can ever achieve and still e happy, don’t become friends with procrastination it will cheat you and leave you sad, alone and out of time.

Excell in living by being on time, Do everything in time and you will never get tired, in this journey of life don’t rush things and don’t jump growing up just because you wanna be an adult, You will get old before your time and you will arrive at your destination earlier than expected and that means an early departure for you and directly results in you dying early or living a very short life.

Don’t experiment with things that are not yet of your age they will mess you up. Rather be a kid if you are a kid, don’t rush Life cause it will rush you also. But never be late with your time because it will get finished without you ever getting to use it.

Don’t be early and don’t be late with life, Rather in this journey of life always be on time and have patience with everything.

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Inspirational word’s

You only live once so live outstanding

What is life

The journey of life

Life is a four letter word that represents the beginning and the end of one’s journey on earth, it represents all the decisions good or bad that one might make in this journey of life, it is a record of all the things that one goes through, and all the emotions that one discovers while they walk this journey.

The starting point of the journey of life is when one is born, the journey it’s self is when one is growing up and living life , this may be when one is a child, a teenager,and finally an adult, The finish line bieng when one dies or finally becomes one with the soil.

In this journey of life if you take shortcuts you are likely to arrive at your destination a little earlier than expected and that means you die sooner or at a young age.

Everything has its time and everyone has their own purpose in life, When you enter this world you are heavily armoured with different talents and gifts that you must use to make a difference in earth.

We are all different in a way such that we are like different pieces of a puzzle, we are very different yet together we make one grand masterpiece, we are all traveling individually different journeys but they all interlock at different intersections, in this journey of life we meet and part ways with different people that may be friends, enemies, partners or even family, But in the end we all exit this journey alone.

To be continued………… 🙏

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Self improvement, motivation, life and life advice

The grass is always greener on the other side

I thought you said there’s was nothing which you couldn’t do, Are you gonna quit and pretend like it never happened, are you just gonna move on. That would be acting like a loser, No as a matter of fact that would be admitting and accepting to yourself that you are a loser.

Just ask yourself this one question don’t answer to me but to yourself “what have you got to lose if you continue”

It never easy to climb a mountain but the how is always great and best at the top, whatever you do make sure even if it’s a choice that you make, make sure that you don’t regret it later.

I mean the gain is always hardly the loss, believe in yourself and do what makes you happy even if the process is long and tiresome know that no man has ever achieved success without stumbling on failure several times first.

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Life

The man in the mirror

Vision is power

Who’s the man in the mirror, what’s he saying to you, are you okay listening to him or does it hurt. Are you proud of the man in the mirror, Is he glad to be you and are you happy to be him.

If not listen to him ask him what needs to be done to change the way he looks at you, what needs to be done to put a smile on his face.

Engage with him, let him in, open up to him, trust him and make him become your greatest treasure.

You don’t need others to be happy you just need yourself, you just need to be yourself. So live your life just as you are don’t change just because other people don’t approve of you be yourself and be happy with who you are. Always appreciate yourself and your life.

Be content with who you are, You are a blessing to yourself and to us. Never even for once think that you are a curse and don’t deserve to succeed or to live, you are needed and you are appreciated, so thank you for being born and thank you for being just the way you are

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Life’s greatest treasure

Life as a a journey that needs preparation

Greetings to all my reader’s it’s been a week since I last wrote to you, And though a week seems like little time, a lot has happened, making me realize what really matters in life. And so I thought what better way to share my knowledge than to blog about it

Life is a journey that no man is prepared for . It is a journey that one has to start on their own, travel on their own and finish on their own. It is a journey of individuality no one but you can journey it. It is a journey that you only get to travel once in your life and it is your life. It is the journey that has never been travelled and never been explored, it is your journey

In this journey of life you’ve got many turns and pretty much get lost many times before finding your way. If you rush in this journey you will get tired and won’t be able to finish your journey, if you ignore the signs and fail to heed the advice you will get lost, stumble and get hurt so you need to be cautious and attentive.

Don’t worry about what others say, focus soley on your own journey and you will see yourself travel smoothly. Remember no shortcut, the way may be long but it’s rewarding.

Achieve what you can when you can. Have dreams and hopes in life, trust yourself to be able to fulfill those hopes and dreams, be inspired by everything that surrounds you and take a minute to appreciate life every day.

May all be well for you, I rest my case till next time signed well wisher

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Motivational talk of the day.

I’ve been waiting for so long for a miracle to happen, Everyone has lost hope, through the dark I am all alone, having absolutely nothing to lose I shall venture deep enough until the darkness begins to disappear.

When the odds are against me and all the stacks are up and higher, I have but no choice other than to continue, though it seemingly seems that in this journey called life I have come so far that it is further to go back and darker ahead, I feel so lost and so scared that I no longer know what to do.


I am neither moving forward nor backward, I’m only standing still, Time has passed in the form of seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and finally years yet nothing has changed even the wind continues to blow in the same direction.


Whatever it might be I shall wipe off the tears and take control. If I fail to believe in myself then who ever will. If I fail to understand myself then who will.

It seems no one is ever gonna give me the helping hand or no one is willing to do so. But that won’t get me down, I’ve been down for too long, it’s high time I pulled up my socks. It’s time I showed everybody my truest self, my truest capabilities, it’s high time I start believing in my self.

It’s time I fought for my sit up there, it’s high time I conquered my way to the top, it’s high time I fought my way into victory, it’s high time I earned my own spot at the table of kings. It’s time that I become a king myself. It’s high time that I get a “You deserve it”only because I worked very hard for it, And so do you.

The minute you give something translates directly to the second you begin to receive it.

In life if you need to be loved or anything else then just start by bieng more loving to others.

Best life advice

Letting go in life sometimes goes a long way

Best Motivational story 2021

Box full of Kisses

Be at peace wherever you are

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.

Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.”

The man became embarrassed by his overreaction earlier, but his rage continue when he saw that the box was empty. He yelled at her; “Don’t you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside?”
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried;

“Oh, Daddy, it’s not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They’re all for you, Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child.

Her father kept the gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

It is possible to find solace by peeking into the past, Not all is always lost

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Self improvement, Health and life advice

Be content with what you have, remember hard work pays

Often enough people screw up their lives, drive themselves deep enough into the darkness so much that they get lost in the dark. Soon they start thinking all about the mistakes they have done and end up getting depressed, when they see themselves in their lowest and so down to earth they begin the blame game.

Now it’s somebody else’s fault that you failed in life, it’s never your own fault but someone’s else. If things weren’t like this then my life would be better. Had I never known you then I wouldn’t be in this situation, had things been different then maybe I could be somewhere in life.

You start thinking of a way to escape your misery in life. SUICIDE it’s always the first option you think of, maybe dying would be so much better than living, some of you think that constant mopping is the key, if I always think about my problems and my difficult situation in life maybe somehow it will go away. Some think that neglecting their health, families and lives is the key hence they start to stay alone driving everyone who cares away.

Little do you know how your actions impact everyone around you, the minute you start blaming others for your own mistakes you are charging and finding them guilty of being inhuman and being insesitive. You are indirectly telling them that they are the one’s who are solely responsible for everthing, And trust me being the other guy hurts more than you would imagine, there is nothing more hurtful on earth than being responsible for any hurt or torment caused to another individual. To you it may pass with time but for the accused the wounds may heal but the scars remain.

Never blame anyone for your own mistakes, Accept that you have made a mistake, find a way to move on and focus on the future, keep it in mind that to err is human, Something’s are not in our control

Bad things may have been done to us even though we are good people, we might always be in despair. You might be even thinking why don’t you ever achieve greatness even though you work so hard, Why do you constantly have to be up and running daily just so you can get your daily bread and butter. Why is life so bitter for you if you are so kind, Why are things always going wrong for you if you are so good to everyone and why doesn’t life work out for you if it’s working out for everyone.

Well the truth is that life has a way of working it’s self out, I personally think that your struggles are what define you, if you see yourself going through these hurdles in life that seem to be never ending, these troubles that are always popping up. Don’t worry it’s life that is teaching you, preparing you and moulding you for a better future, just as there is day and night, it’s always gonna be dark before the sun rises and so is your life just know that even thought the sunrise may be longer than expected nothing is ever gonna be able to stop the sun from rising.

Get rid of those weary and worrysome thoughts and start living for today and tomorrow, A lot awaits you.

Live in today and tomorrow forget yesterday, shine brighter than a diamond and you will never be troubled.

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Self improvement and life advice

There is no difference between mountains whether it is the highest or the lowest a mountain is always a mountain how you see it is what matters. (Methembe Mbambo)

When the slope is steep you are bound to stumble several times, don’t confuse stumbling with failure.

No one is born as a failure but most of us die as failure's.
Life is always fair and rewarding to those who are deserving.
Failure is a figment of the imagination and so is success, if you imagine yourself to be successful you instantly become so.
Hard work pays.

Why do people expect bad times to be brief, if good times are forever.

  • Never doubt yourself.
  • A simple idea can become a millionaire idea if worked on correctly.
  • Try, try, try again sooner or later you are bound to succeed.
  • Failure is the ability to give up and move on.
  • Necessity is the mother of invention, think of it like that always

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Facts about life

What really separates people who are habitually upbeat and optimistic from those who are consistently miserable is how the circumstances of life are interpreted and processed.”

No matter what happens to you in your life, you alone have the capacity to choose your response to it. When you form the habit of searching for the positive in every circumstance, your life will move into its highest dimensions. This is one of the greatest of all the natural laws.”

All success in life, whether material or spiritual, starts with that twelve-pound mass sitting between your shoulders. Or more specifically, with the thoughts that you put into your mind every second of every minute of every day. Your outer world reflects the state of your inner world. By controlling the thoughts that you think and the way you respond to the events of your life, you begin to control your destiny.”

To transcend pain, you must first experience it. Or to put it another way, how can you really know the joy of being on the summit of the mountain unless you have first visited the lowest valley.

When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.

Life questions

How do you measure a man’s worth?
Through his gains or through what he gives

Who shall hear my cry😭

What do you see when you look at me ?. Can hear the cry of my broken heart which is in agony. I look brave yet my inner soul is trembling. I laugh yet my soul is crying. I feel so alone yet I am sorrounded by people. They say they love me yet I […]

Who shall hear my cry😭

Growth quotes

“Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”

— Albert Einstein

“Never give in except to convictions of honor and good sense.”

— Winston Churchill

Inspirational and motivational quotes

. “Opportunities don’t happen. You create them.”

— Chris Grosser

“Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great.”

–John D. Rockefeller

“I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.”

— Thomas Jefferson

Best life advice

-Progress is always slow.
-Always focus on the journey not the finish line.
-Life it’s self is a journey, don’t spend too much of your time focusing on things that can’t move because one day you will surely have to pass them.
-No matter what situation you may be in today remember you have the strength to move mountains, you can make the impossible possible.
-To live is to walk so just keep on walking.
-Its impossible to be perfect and live a perfect life, so just stick to being you and love the best way you can.
-Always surround yourself with positive things.
-Empty out the negative.

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Best life advice

Happiness is positivity

Always choose to see the positive in everything
Have a positive response to everything including negative things
Possess positive thoughts only
Always hang around positive people who inspire you
Always choose to tackle your problems as if they are just tests
Improve all of your abilities
Adapt easily to new environments
Never disappoint those who believe in you, achieve everthing you can

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How to win today

Great morning marks a great day

Ever wondered just how a single bath in the morning can help you change your day.

Well I usually wake up at 4am in the morning go to the borehole and get some water and return at about ten past to twenty past five depending on the line there.

When I come back from there I’m usually tired so I sit down for maybe ten to fifteen minutes and then start to clean the house sweep the yard.

At half past six I’m usually done with everything, it’s then that I just sit and doze of in the sofa. This usually happens everytime and every day and the whole afternoon gets ruined cause I will be feeling tired the whole day and the dya will seem much much more longer than normal

But all of that can be avoided, I began noticing just how everything seemed to be different if I took a bath in the morning, it’s like the whole day would change, everthing would change. As soon as I took a bath after all that work I would feel refreshed all that tiredness would just disappear. My day would be so long that I could decide it into three sections, the morning, the afternoon and the evening.

It’s like as soon as you take that bath you wash away all the tiredness, the fatigue, and all that laziness

If you bath early in the morning you will feel more refreshed than someone who didn’t, you will know as to how to spend your day, you can even carry out yesterday’s today plans perfectly because you will be in sync and in form

Wake up early
Bath early
And approach your day

N:B take a little shower in the evening if you can

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Best life advice

Great dreamers’ dreams are never fulfilled, they are always transcended. Alfred Lord Whitehead