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WHAT IS A FRIEND

True friend’s will never be ashamed of you

A person who walks in when others walk out is a true friend. Friends are life’s preservers.

Fake friends are people who only appear when its convinient, they are people who are always there but never really truly there when needed.

Fake friends are like this, during the dry season they are nowhere to be found; they only come flowing in with the water during the Rainy season.

They never come bearing any gifts yet they always leave with something. They are the first to disapprove and discourage you whenever you have a good idea or believe in something. They will never believe in you, your ideas and your abilities. They stick with you because they believe they are better than you in every way. They are always ready to lough at your failures and mistakes. They believe they are in some kind of competition with you, hence they rejoice when you hit a push back or stumble in life.

Fake friends spend more time talking rather than lestening. FAKE FRIEND ARE LIKE SHADOWS, They are there during the good times but as soon as the sun sets THEY DISSAPPEAR.

Becareful of who you hang around, be aware of your surroundings and your surrounders. If you’ve got fake friends hanging around you all the time you dont have to please anyone just CUT THEM OFF. If you are a fake friend to someone or somebody CHANGE YOUR WAYS TODAY.

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The power behind a No in life

You are stronger and more powerful

If it wasnt for all those people who said no even when a yes was in order you probably wouldnt be here today.

If it was’nt for all those hard knocks in life all those stumbles. And all those moments that made you feel like you were never ever gonna amount to anything in life then you probably wouldnt be here today.

What does’nt kill you makes you stronger. Changing your mindset helps a lot in defining situations i.e A GLASS IS NEVER HALF EMPTY BUT ALWAYS HALF FULL.

Its the same with an egg and potato. The same water that haddens an egg softens the potato. ITS FULLY ON YOU WHETHER YOU CHOOSE TO BE A POTATO OR AN EGG. but whatever you choose dont let your decision be impacted or influenced by other peoples thoughts about.

My point is dont allow previouse failures, bad breaks to dictate your future for you. #YOU ARE POWERFUL.

# YOU CAN SHAKE BUT NEVER CRACK.

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Life advice

We don’t always have to agree with one another, but it’s important that we learn to respect each other.

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Self improvement (life)

Happiness is from within

No one will ever really make you happy in life, only you have the power to bring happiness into your life.

Some people believe that relationships make them happy, full and complete in life. But in most cases that is usually not the case.

Relationships do bring happines but only for a short time. For a little time you are happy in love but then comes a time when you spend your time just crying and thinking about the other person (him or her).

If you are feeling unloved or lonely in life, trust me what you are looking for in relationships you wont find.

If love had the power then hunger, poverty and misunderstandings would be of no harm to your relationship, they would neither have any power nor any impact, And they they would pose no threat to your relationship.

If you are lacking love in your life then most probably its self love that you are lacking. Its dangerous to love someone more than you love yourself. Be fair to everyone including yourself.

Dont let the illusion that they show on tvs about how relationships complete people or make people complete each other. These are matters that other people just cant fix only you can.

You can beat low self esteem, deppresion JUST LEARN AND LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. How can love exist if you cant feel it for yourself.

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Life lessons

At some point we are gonna be alone, learn to treasure the moments you have with your loved ones while they last

There is no guarantee that you’re gonna wake up tomorrow, why not treasure the moments you have today with your loved ones when you still can.

Stop holding grudges, stop fighting unnecessarily with others, forgive them and live life to the fullest. Live your live in a way that when you die you won’t have any regret and any unsaid words.

Quote of the day

Don’t burn bridges. You’ll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
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Life Question {Find your purpose in life}

When you were born you didn’t just pop out from your mother’s womb, From the moment you were born a great part of the plan of your life was bieng fulfilled, By bieng born alive and well you managed to fulfill one of the greatest obstacles in life because not so many of us manage to survive in the womb and come out of the womb still breathing and alive.

Bieng born alive was the first thing that should have alerted you that you were a conqueror, a fighter a survivor and a strong person. You weren’t just born for no reason. You were born for a reason, you were born because you had a purpose, a purpose that no other man can ever fulfill, a purpose that is destined only for you.

Never mind the toughness, hardness, difficulties and sorrow’s of your life. Just know that you were meant to do more and be more.

Remember life is a journey, unless you find your purpose your journey can never be completed. Your purpose will lead you to your destination.

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Self love, learning to be yourself

True happiness is when you are with the people who love and appreciate you for who you truly are.

Surely not everyone is gonna love you in life, Not everyone is gonna like you in life. If you haven’t then someday you are gonna meet some haters, some pretenders and some fake people.You have to be smart and be able to read a person’s character clearly, you have to be able to recognize your true friends and family not only in bad times but also in good times.

Fake people, fake friends and pretenders are those people who appear only when times are good, they are those people whom you have to impress on a daily basis, they are those people who never really care about you, But only care about their status in society, ie, (they only roll with the high rollers, if you can’t afford to be one any more then they discard of you).

I wonder why most of us humans are foolish enough to keep repeating the same mistakes time and time again, we see these things happening everyday and almost to everyone but we end up getting back to the same trap over and over again. IF THEY WON’T LET YOU BE YOUR TRUE SELF,IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOUR TRUE SELF, THEN THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS, they are simply not worth it.

Learn to love yourself first, learn to be yourself first and surely real people will start flowing into your , real people who will love you for who you are. Their presence will overpower the scarcity and need of love in your life so much that you will end up not having any void in your life. Happiness will over flow into your life.

Choose yourself by choosing to be real, bieng real ain’t easy but it’s the best thing you can ever do for yourself in life.

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Life advice

Live in hope

The pain, struggles and difficulties of life are what make living it worth it.

Without hate there is no love, without bitterness there is no sweetness, without pain there is no pleasure and without death there is no life.

Everything in life compliments each other, we cannot to expect live life of good times without ever having bad times. Bad times are what makes us aware when we are in good times.

Everyone one in life has a time of suffering, feeling alone, dark and bad times. That does not mean that those times are permanent or forever, just as winter may seem longer than summer and summer may seem shorter, so will the bad times in your life. But the great thing about all of this is that ~WINTER NEVER LASTS FOREVER.

Nothing is permanent, just live in hope all will work out.

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Upcycling old clothes

Part 2 MAKING A MAT

Hey everybody nice to see you all today, here’s a new project for the diy part of my blog that I promised you. It’s not yet finished but I’ve been doing it for the past two days taking breaks in-between

So today I decided to make a goldfish with stripes mat, hope you like it and try it

Things you are gonna use.

The are only three sharp things you will need, you can make the first and last at home, careful you don’t stab yourself
You are gonna need some old clothes for the material
For the base you can use a sack of mealie meal
You can try and draw a picture of what you are gonna sew before sewing for neatness
This is what it looks like from the front side
Back side image when it’s almost ready
Here’s what it looks like when you about to finish from the front

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The power of smart decisions

Smart choices always get you ahead in life no matter what the circumstances are.

Only a number of people in life are smart, Most f us humans never really bother thinking about the future, past or even present. We never really plan for Life this we always find ourselves struggling to to really live life to he fullest.

Wisdom is rare among humans, people who always do things for the now rarely have a future. See here’s the thing, in life there’s always a shot-run and a long-run, if you fail to plan for the future and make poor decisions and choices that may benefit you in the short run which is the now then know that in the long-run which is the future those bad little choices or decisions definetly become thorns that prick life out of you.

But here’s the great part smart choices may mean a Little hardwork and toil in the present, a little less fun and more seriousness in the now but the best thing about this is that smart choices may you wiser, they make you smarter and they definitely guarantee a better tomorrow.

In everything you do always remember that tommorow is the only thing that’s forever. If pleasure today means the opposite tomorrow then choose what’s best for you and what will last you. Friends are never permanent,parties are not permanent but as long as you are living you are. Here’s an example, Smoking may be fun today but lung cancer isn’t won’t be tomorrow #choose wiser

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When it rains it pours heavily

When it rains it definitely pours, life is hard as we know it. The struggle is real. Look at me I’ve been struggling my whole life whenever it seems like it’s gonna get better everything comes crashing down. Thanks to the almighty God they are still people with kind hearts out there, some weeks ago […]

When it rains it pours heavily

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New beginnings compassion

Hate is a poison that is so deadly it kills

Down goes the sun🌞up comes the moonπŸŒ•, it’s another day gone again and still it seems like there is no progress, life Is just messed up.

Busy bees that’s what we are, we get so caught up with everyday life so much that we start pushing away our loved ones, family and friends. What’s wrong with the generation today, we no longer care about other’s we do things soley for ourselves.

The news are filled with negative things, stories of men killing each other over small things and other evil doings .

And so I asked myself today what would it take to make the world a better place to live in, and I ended up reaching the conclusion that kindness is the key

If we give to the needy, comfort the broken, and share a little love everywhere we go then surely a little goodness would begin to spread. Be compassionate and help change the world, Start by giving a nice compliment to anyone you see even a stranger,

# compassion

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