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Self love, learning to be yourself

True happiness is when you are with the people who love and appreciate you for who you truly are.

Surely not everyone is gonna love you in life, Not everyone is gonna like you in life. If you haven’t then someday you are gonna meet some haters, some pretenders and some fake people.You have to be smart and be able to read a person’s character clearly, you have to be able to recognize your true friends and family not only in bad times but also in good times.

Fake people, fake friends and pretenders are those people who appear only when times are good, they are those people whom you have to impress on a daily basis, they are those people who never really care about you, But only care about their status in society, ie, (they only roll with the high rollers, if you can’t afford to be one any more then they discard of you).

I wonder why most of us humans are foolish enough to keep repeating the same mistakes time and time again, we see these things happening everyday and almost to everyone but we end up getting back to the same trap over and over again. IF THEY WON’T LET YOU BE YOUR TRUE SELF,IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOUR TRUE SELF, THEN THEY ARE NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS, they are simply not worth it.

Learn to love yourself first, learn to be yourself first and surely real people will start flowing into your , real people who will love you for who you are. Their presence will overpower the scarcity and need of love in your life so much that you will end up not having any void in your life. Happiness will over flow into your life.

Choose yourself by choosing to be real, bieng real ain’t easy but it’s the best thing you can ever do for yourself in life.

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Life advice

Live in hope

The pain, struggles and difficulties of life are what make living it worth it.

Without hate there is no love, without bitterness there is no sweetness, without pain there is no pleasure and without death there is no life.

Everything in life compliments each other, we cannot to expect live life of good times without ever having bad times. Bad times are what makes us aware when we are in good times.

Everyone one in life has a time of suffering, feeling alone, dark and bad times. That does not mean that those times are permanent or forever, just as winter may seem longer than summer and summer may seem shorter, so will the bad times in your life. But the great thing about all of this is that ~WINTER NEVER LASTS FOREVER.

Nothing is permanent, just live in hope all will work out.

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The power of smart decisions

Smart choices always get you ahead in life no matter what the circumstances are.

Only a number of people in life are smart, Most f us humans never really bother thinking about the future, past or even present. We never really plan for Life this we always find ourselves struggling to to really live life to he fullest.

Wisdom is rare among humans, people who always do things for the now rarely have a future. See here’s the thing, in life there’s always a shot-run and a long-run, if you fail to plan for the future and make poor decisions and choices that may benefit you in the short run which is the now then know that in the long-run which is the future those bad little choices or decisions definetly become thorns that prick life out of you.

But here’s the great part smart choices may mean a Little hardwork and toil in the present, a little less fun and more seriousness in the now but the best thing about this is that smart choices may you wiser, they make you smarter and they definitely guarantee a better tomorrow.

In everything you do always remember that tommorow is the only thing that’s forever. If pleasure today means the opposite tomorrow then choose what’s best for you and what will last you. Friends are never permanent,parties are not permanent but as long as you are living you are. Here’s an example, Smoking may be fun today but lung cancer isn’t won’t be tomorrow #choose wiser

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When it rains it pours heavily

When it rains it definitely pours, life is hard as we know it. The struggle is real. Look at me I’ve been struggling my whole life whenever it seems like it’s gonna get better everything comes crashing down. Thanks to the almighty God they are still people with kind hearts out there, some weeks ago […]

When it rains it pours heavily

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Self improvement {trust}

Trust in your hard work

I wonder why, Everytime things start to get better bad things happen. It seems that bad the bad things that happen to us always overshadow the good things that happen to us. It seems we are more prone of bad things happening to us than we are of good things.

Everytime you start making progress in your life, something happens and you end up in the same place you began. I often feel and think that life isn’t fair, But that doesn’t help me ever, sulking and getting depressed may make you feel special or better but it doesn’t make the situation any better.

No matter how bad life may seem, I believe brighter days are always in store, Believe hope and trust that things will get better and surely one day if not today they will. Focus on the good and positives of life cause no matter how little they are good things always have bigger footsteps in our lives than bad things.

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Best life advice

Work hard till you can work smart.

Hard work pays.

In life you always get what you deserve.

It’s always better to seek advice from those who have travelled the road before.

The elders are always wiser and have more knowledge.

Holding grudges leads you to an unhappy life.

It’s always easier and better to forgive rather than to revenge.

Nothing good ever comes out of envy and jealousy.

Learn and try to always be happy for others.

Treat everyone with the exact way you would like them to treat you.

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The power of Perseverance {Endurance}

Nothing is ever permanent in life everything comes to go.

Ever felt like things weren’t ever gonna be okay or alright for you, Ever felt like you were the most unlucky person on earth, like no matter how hard you try you always end up in the same place you began.

Well this happens to the best of us, We all go through that period in our lives, The period where we get stuck in one place and the only movement that occurs is when we slide two steps backwards and one step forward repeatedly until we get tired of the process cause there won’t be any progress.

The sun is a perfect example of some of our lives, Everyday it rises, shines brighter only to set, Some days the sky may be overcast and the sun may not appear the whole day and end up setting. But that does not mean that it never rose.

You might not have noticed but the sun did rise, And if it hasn’t then it definitely will. Nothing can ever stop the sun from from coming, Nothing can ever stop summer from coming, you just have to endure the winter season and the nights cause they are never permanent, You just have to go through them, Grow through them and learn from them.

Learn to persevere, learn to be persevere and all will be well

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Enlightening messages

Everytime you fall down gives you an opportunity to jump even higher. Don’t let your sorrows, troubles, pain and past be the judge of you.

Enlightening messages

Surprise {the power of being aware}

#Life and it’s surprise

Surprise —— it is the element of being caught unaware or unknowingly

Have you ever been surprised by something in life. Or has life ever surprised you. Most of us live our lives as the surprised, we are always unaware of what’s gonna happen next.

Rush in life, never be late. Dont let the winter come and find you without a fireplace you will freeze to death. Never be caught unaware this is your life OWN IT.

Don’t allow time to pass you without you even noticing, Either you be on time or you get ahead of time.

Let your success become the lighting that strikes anyway and anytime. Surprise yourself by how far you can go, by how far you can endure and by how much you can do.

Only perception matters don’t be disturbed and distracted by your past mistakes and life’s failure’s. Be aware of your surrounding, your strength and your will power don’t allow time, life and failure to work the element of surprise on you. Be aware and always ready.

You are more intelligent than you think and far more stronger than you ever guessed. Don’t let failure, disappointments and life beat you to death. LIVE Outstandingly. It’s never too late

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Self improvement and motivational skills

Be the change, make the difference

If you think it’s Impossible then it instantly becomes impossible.

What you think about situations usually becomes reality.

At times I wonder, why are we humans so cruel to one another, why do we choose to forget our true selves, our true nature when we are who we are, why do we choose to become someone else when we can be ourselves, why do we struggle so much just to fit in with the people that don’t appreciate us. Why is it that when life gets good for us we forget who was there when the days were dark, why do we choose to sideline the people who truly care about us just because life has suddenly become great. Why do we choose to be selfish every time somebody truly needs us. And why do we choose to go the other way when we see that blind man begging on the side of the street.

Why can’t we be a little giving, a little compassionate, why can’t we be a little, a little kind, a little selfless, a little humble and a little appreciative.

Be the change today and make a difference in the world, teach a thing or two to the people about humanity, make them realise that the world is what we make of it, not individually not as groups but together as the people.

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Healing for the soul

Take a time out,take a breather.

Relax sit next to the window, take a cup of coffee enjoy it.

See everything there is to see outside, notice what you’ve never noticed before.

How do you feel now.

Appreciate everything there is to life, be thankful for everything that you’ve got, and also be aware of your surroundings.

Thank you

The hard truth about life

The truth about life.

The hard fact about life is that you have to live with your decisions but you don’t always to live with your friends.

When you have nothing to lose, then you definitely have everything to gain.

Sunday Scripture: Matthew 11:28

Three crosses on a hill Verse: Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. -Matthew 11:28 Personal Meaning: This fallen world can be so draining. The daily stresses and strains can quickly overwhelm us. We can rest in Jesus and His promise that this world is […]

Sunday Scripture: Matthew 11:28

Best life advice

Find your purpose and let it drive you.

Determination is the key to success and it opens doors but hard work is the force that drives you to grab the door knobs.

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What is life {Part 2}

Time is never on your side

In this journey of life we might have friend’s, family or even loved ones that may keep us company for a short time or even a long time on earth but in the end we will always find ourselves walking alone because our destination’s differ and that means our arrival’s and departures on earth are also different.

Nothing is permanent, everything is temporary. Time is the only thing that is there forever, But we we aren’t that is why we have to conserve our time on earth and use it wisely. They say time is precious and I agree, there will come a time when all the people from our generation will cease to exist, learn from this time will always be there but we won’t, on this Earth we are only passing by. Time is not our’s to keep it’s for us to use.

As soon we are born we begin to die, this only means one thing for us and that is we are born to die, our time living or on earth is limited, we live on borrowed time and one day it’s gonna run out and we are gonna have to give it back.

Live your life in such a way that you will achieve all you can ever achieve and still e happy, don’t become friends with procrastination it will cheat you and leave you sad, alone and out of time.

Excell in living by being on time, Do everything in time and you will never get tired, in this journey of life don’t rush things and don’t jump growing up just because you wanna be an adult, You will get old before your time and you will arrive at your destination earlier than expected and that means an early departure for you and directly results in you dying early or living a very short life.

Don’t experiment with things that are not yet of your age they will mess you up. Rather be a kid if you are a kid, don’t rush Life cause it will rush you also. But never be late with your time because it will get finished without you ever getting to use it.

Don’t be early and don’t be late with life, Rather in this journey of life always be on time and have patience with everything.

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Inspirational word’s

You only live once so live outstanding

Motivation the weekend

Failing a thousand times and does not mean you are a failure it just meant you are thousand steps closer to reaching your success.

What is life

The journey of life

Life is a four letter word that represents the beginning and the end of one’s journey on earth, it represents all the decisions good or bad that one might make in this journey of life, it is a record of all the things that one goes through, and all the emotions that one discovers while they walk this journey.

The starting point of the journey of life is when one is born, the journey it’s self is when one is growing up and living life , this may be when one is a child, a teenager,and finally an adult, The finish line bieng when one dies or finally becomes one with the soil.

In this journey of life if you take shortcuts you are likely to arrive at your destination a little earlier than expected and that means you die sooner or at a young age.

Everything has its time and everyone has their own purpose in life, When you enter this world you are heavily armoured with different talents and gifts that you must use to make a difference in earth.

We are all different in a way such that we are like different pieces of a puzzle, we are very different yet together we make one grand masterpiece, we are all traveling individually different journeys but they all interlock at different intersections, in this journey of life we meet and part ways with different people that may be friends, enemies, partners or even family, But in the end we all exit this journey alone.

To be continued………… πŸ™

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Self improvement, motivation, life and life advice

The grass is always greener on the other side

I thought you said there’s was nothing which you couldn’t do, Are you gonna quit and pretend like it never happened, are you just gonna move on. That would be acting like a loser, No as a matter of fact that would be admitting and accepting to yourself that you are a loser.

Just ask yourself this one question don’t answer to me but to yourself “what have you got to lose if you continue”

It never easy to climb a mountain but the how is always great and best at the top, whatever you do make sure even if it’s a choice that you make, make sure that you don’t regret it later.

I mean the gain is always hardly the loss, believe in yourself and do what makes you happy even if the process is long and tiresome know that no man has ever achieved success without stumbling on failure several times first.

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How to make money at home as a teenager

How to make money as a teen

Money is a necessity you can’t do without, originally money is gold, paper money is just like a cheque it’s another form of money just like coins of course the real money being gold.

Money is often considered evil, but I guess there is nothing we can do about it, cause when we need it, we really need it.

There are many ways a person can use to make money but here I have compiled just a few of them a teen can use as a form of making money. You can use these methods anywhere in the world ranging from MEDCS (More Economically Developed Countries), LEDCS (Less Economically Developed Countries), First World and Third World countries. Read and enjoy.

[1] STARTING A BLOG.

Although this cannot immediately generate an income it can somehow work as an investment for the future. First you will need to grow n audience and only then can you monetize your blog and start earning. You can ask someone to build you your own website or you can join sites that already exist and create your blog from them e.gΒ  Bluehost and our very own WordPress, If you can't afford the plans then don't worry you can start your blog on a free plan and upgrade it later if you have gathered some cent's.

You will need to have a passion for the topic that you will be writing about and you will need to know that the numbers shouldn't matter to you as long as you are doing what you love there's nothing that can stop you from succeeding.

USING YOUR CRAFTS OR SKILLS TO make MONEY.

If you know yourself to be good at something then this is something that you should definitely try out.

Handmade crafts
If you are skillful with your hands then crafts are just the thing for you. You can try these set of crafts that I have listed below.

DIY ???????????????
If you have never come across this word then you've definitely been missing out on a lot.
D. Do
I. It
Y. Yourself
And that's the defination.

You can start some diy projects for yourself and here I have compiled a few of them that can help make money for you.

HANDMADE CRAFTS YOU CAN USE TO MAKE MONEY.

  • Baking and selling cookies
  • Extra lessons to others kids
  • Candle making
  • Photography
  • Art teacher
  • Music lessons
  • Become a Musicians
  • Make and sell greeting cards
  • DIY by recycling old materials and making them new e.g jeans to backpack
  • Sewing (you can offer altering services)
  • Bead work
  • DIY phone covers.

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Life

The man in the mirror

Vision is power

Who’s the man in the mirror, what’s he saying to you, are you okay listening to him or does it hurt. Are you proud of the man in the mirror, Is he glad to be you and are you happy to be him.

If not listen to him ask him what needs to be done to change the way he looks at you, what needs to be done to put a smile on his face.

Engage with him, let him in, open up to him, trust him and make him become your greatest treasure.

You don’t need others to be happy you just need yourself, you just need to be yourself. So live your life just as you are don’t change just because other people don’t approve of you be yourself and be happy with who you are. Always appreciate yourself and your life.

Be content with who you are, You are a blessing to yourself and to us. Never even for once think that you are a curse and don’t deserve to succeed or to live, you are needed and you are appreciated, so thank you for being born and thank you for being just the way you are

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Life’s greatest treasure

Life as a a journey that needs preparation

Greetings to all my reader’s it’s been a week since I last wrote to you, And though a week seems like little time, a lot has happened, making me realize what really matters in life. And so I thought what better way to share my knowledge than to blog about it

Life is a journey that no man is prepared for . It is a journey that one has to start on their own, travel on their own and finish on their own. It is a journey of individuality no one but you can journey it. It is a journey that you only get to travel once in your life and it is your life. It is the journey that has never been travelled and never been explored, it is your journey

In this journey of life you’ve got many turns and pretty much get lost many times before finding your way. If you rush in this journey you will get tired and won’t be able to finish your journey, if you ignore the signs and fail to heed the advice you will get lost, stumble and get hurt so you need to be cautious and attentive.

Don’t worry about what others say, focus soley on your own journey and you will see yourself travel smoothly. Remember no shortcut, the way may be long but it’s rewarding.

Achieve what you can when you can. Have dreams and hopes in life, trust yourself to be able to fulfill those hopes and dreams, be inspired by everything that surrounds you and take a minute to appreciate life every day.

May all be well for you, I rest my case till next time signed well wisher

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Motivational talk of the day.

I’ve been waiting for so long for a miracle to happen, Everyone has lost hope, through the dark I am all alone, having absolutely nothing to lose I shall venture deep enough until the darkness begins to disappear.

When the odds are against me and all the stacks are up and higher, I have but no choice other than to continue, though it seemingly seems that in this journey called life I have come so far that it is further to go back and darker ahead, I feel so lost and so scared that I no longer know what to do.


I am neither moving forward nor backward, I’m only standing still, Time has passed in the form of seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and finally years yet nothing has changed even the wind continues to blow in the same direction.


Whatever it might be I shall wipe off the tears and take control. If I fail to believe in myself then who ever will. If I fail to understand myself then who will.

It seems no one is ever gonna give me the helping hand or no one is willing to do so. But that won’t get me down, I’ve been down for too long, it’s high time I pulled up my socks. It’s time I showed everybody my truest self, my truest capabilities, it’s high time I start believing in my self.

It’s time I fought for my sit up there, it’s high time I conquered my way to the top, it’s high time I fought my way into victory, it’s high time I earned my own spot at the table of kings. It’s time that I become a king myself. It’s high time that I get a “You deserve it”only because I worked very hard for it, And so do you.

The minute you give something translates directly to the second you begin to receive it.

In life if you need to be loved or anything else then just start by bieng more loving to others.

Facts about life

What really separates people who are habitually upbeat and optimistic from those who are consistently miserable is how the circumstances of life are interpreted and processed.”

No matter what happens to you in your life, you alone have the capacity to choose your response to it. When you form the habit of searching for the positive in every circumstance, your life will move into its highest dimensions. This is one of the greatest of all the natural laws.”

All success in life, whether material or spiritual, starts with that twelve-pound mass sitting between your shoulders. Or more specifically, with the thoughts that you put into your mind every second of every minute of every day. Your outer world reflects the state of your inner world. By controlling the thoughts that you think and the way you respond to the events of your life, you begin to control your destiny.”

To transcend pain, you must first experience it. Or to put it another way, how can you really know the joy of being on the summit of the mountain unless you have first visited the lowest valley.

When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive and you discover yourself to be a greater person than you ever dreamed yourself to be.

Life questions

How do you measure a man’s worth?
Through his gains or through what he gives